is it love
By mialicious
@mialicious (73)
Malaysia
April 5, 2007 8:51pm CST
i love him, he said he loves me and he loves her more.
tell me what is this and how should i react and what should i do?
4 responses
@Strawberry_one (243)
• United States
12 Apr 07
If he can't get his mind off of her and wrapped around you then something isn't right there. I mean when someone loves you they will love you, it is true that when you love someone you never stop but if he can't get over her and move on to loving you and treating you like he should then you probley shouldn't be with him. I mean if my boyfriend told me he loved his ex girlfriend more then I would have to tell him goodbye. I mean, even though I feel that he might love me there might be the chance that it is just lust and if he were given the chance he'd dump me and jump back to her. (Keep in mind my boyfriend and I both love each other and that is it) But If I were in your situation I would lay it all out on the table with him and if he can't make things right I'd tell him goodbye.
@mialicious (73)
• Malaysia
14 Apr 07
thanks for your response, strawberry_one. yeah would like to hear from you more. but first, you may read all the responses and my comments so that you could understand how i felt and how's the situation really is. have a nice day, my friend.
@StrawSoup (69)
• China
6 Apr 07
If you still love him,please get away from him.Because he is not worth your love,and he loves the girl more.The more you love him the more hurt you'll get.
Just set him free...
@mialicious (73)
• Malaysia
12 Apr 07
thanks for your opinion. but we're good now. we talked things out. he admitted that he was wrong. surprisingly, i didn't do anything. when he asked me what should he do, i just told him "STOP LOVING HER, DONT STOP LOVING ME". he realized who is more important in his life and he told me he loves me. now he spending more time with me, doing things we like, enjoying every moments. thanks for dropping by, strawsoup!
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
6 Apr 07
It is not love unless you are totally committed to eachother, forsaking all others.
@mialicious (73)
• Malaysia
12 Apr 07
thank you, i will always bear that in mind. p/s: this is my first love. im 21. im mature enough to accept the fact that truth hurts.
@mialicious (73)
• Malaysia
12 Apr 07
we just started this relationship. she was his ex girlfriend, and they were having a complicated relationship. he's not really happy with that girl, they broke up long time ago. yea, what you're saying is right, but he loves me. i can feel it. but he loves her more. we can talk things out- that's the best way we think of in our relationship. that's why he came out with this conversation after he felt it wasn't right to treat me coldly when the problem is him...
