Do you fight with your partner??

@amitksing (1323)
India
April 5, 2007 10:47pm CST
My girlfriend at times annoys me a lot! Sometimes she hurts me by saying something! I had a quarrel with her yesterday nite. I wonder if others also fight like us? Do you have querrels with your partner?
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10 responses
• United States
2 May 07
Yes, my boyfriend and I fight sometimes. In the end, though, it only makes our relationship stronger. We realize that we can disagree about things and still love each other. We always make sure to apologize to one another after we fight, and that helps to make things better.
• Philippines
4 May 07
this is a good indication. this means that you can work things out talking. your differences can be ably dealt with by talking things out on a logical level. it is true that when couples are able to do this, this will make their relationship much stronger each time.
@lbbaby (489)
• China
6 Apr 07
No. I think that is unbelievable. If a man fight with a woman , I think he is so terrible.
@amitksing (1323)
• India
11 Apr 07
Hey.. this is something like blaming one partner..
• United States
6 Apr 07
My hubby and I try not to fight we try to talk things out without going overboard and getting too mad And if we start to get angry we will stop and walk it off for a little bit and then come back and talk It has worked for us so far
• Philippines
4 May 07
it is natural for us to pick fights with people close to us. observe how your fight goes. if the fight is a balanced one, that is fine. if it is tilted in favor of one, that is bad. you have to work out your differences. if this cannot be achieved, you better find somebody else. once you get married, you might find out that you are not compatible at all. and this will lead to a break up of the marriage. talk this out with her. the earlier you try to work things out, hte better will it be for both of you.
• India
11 Apr 07
No absolutely not
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
6 Apr 07
Well,i think most couples have problems like you two.I have married for 7 yrs.And we often quarrel and sometimes even fight with each other.Even though we regret after that,we quarrel and fight again. To let the marriage to be a last one is not a easy thing.To keep relationship,we should understand and compromise to each other.If we can not compromise any longer,the marriage ended.
• Canada
6 Apr 07
No, we don't fight. We have better things to do with our time. Communication is very important to us.
• India
6 Apr 07
Hey partner is to fight only. The reasons may be different during day or night hours. Fighting makes relationship more profound, you know.
@jenalyn (675)
• United States
6 Apr 07
Sometimes we have little fights. Sometimes we have big fights. Most of the time we get along. Everytime we have a fight, it is either because of money stresses or lack of communication. I have learned a lot, though. I have been with the same man for 10 years. I always hope that we will have good communication and have less fights. Every year that goes by it gets better. I never learned great communication from home. My parents fought all of the time. I had to learn it all on my own, and it has been tough, but I have no regrets.
@Chryssi (828)
• United States
6 Apr 07
My boyfriend and I don't fight. We simply don't. If a problem comes up, we discuss it, but we don't fight. We don't quarrel, either.