What are the signs that shows a girls interest?
April 6, 2007 10:17am CST
Girls - PLZ give me detailed answers. how do i know if a girl is interested in me? what signs are there 2 let me know? because last week my friend's sister, who i see once a week, might like me but im not 100% sure. If she commented a dozen times that i look smart & said that my current hairstlye looks like J Trovalta from the film 'Grease', does this mean she likes me?
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6 Apr 07
Well girls have many things ways of showing if they like and dislike. they have different ways of showing it. If your being commended all the time, well that doesn't mean they like you already. may they just like your hair but not like you as a whole. The best way to know ofcourse would be to ask. to avoid miscommunication and mis interpretaion.. As her straight to her face! taht will save you a lot of time!
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6 Apr 07
There is only one way to know my friend. Ask her. Girls are taught that it is not good for a girl to make it known she likes a guy so she will not walk up and volunteer that information. If she pays any attention at all to you it is only a sign she may be interested but then it is up to you to make her go that extra step. You have to create the mystery that she needs to truly feel something for you. Try kidding around with her. Make fun of some small thing, kind of like she was your kid sister. Play around and she will find you much more interesting. Yea I know it doesn’t make sense but it works. Asking girls on my lot will not get you the answer you want. Why? Because they don't know you and they don't know her. But I can tell you that it is a very short walk between interest in you and boredom. The last thing you want to do is bore her. That is a real big turn off for girls. Keep up the mystery, keep teasing her, make her know you like her and you will be fine.
6 Apr 07
each girl is different ..you know..each girl will have a unique way of expressing their love..and just commenting about your looks and all neednot be a sign of love..so just tell her how you feel and discuss about it..i think it will be better than waiting for signs of love
6 Apr 07
I would think it depends on whether she like John Travolta in Grease or she thought he looked stupid. I also wonder how many wonderful men in my life were interested and I was too afraid to ask. So I think you should just ask her out for a coffee or something and see if she is interested in you and not just a friend of your sisters. Life is too short not to jump on the chance. The worst thing she can do is say no she isn't interested and then you can move on to someone who is. But if she is interested you haven't wasted any time that could be spent together, getting to know each other on a different level.