fat guys

@kharl143 (343)
Philippines
April 8, 2007 3:17am CST
i am a fat guy.i stand 5'5,95 kilos.my question is,why is it hard for a fat guy like me to look for a girlfriend?why do women dont like guys like me?no matter what they said that it dont matter,obviously it does matter...anyone out there that is a fat guy like me,would you agree to this?
5 responses
@kupooinc (24)
• Indonesia
8 Apr 07
IM A FAT GUY TOO :). From eyes to the hearth. I think u dont meet your soulmate, because i believe inner is more important from outer. If u realize that u'r fat (im fat too) why you dont exercise ?? I dont eat any food know, i want to have a proposional body. SO WE FAT PEOPLE MUST CHANGE OUR ATTITUDE RIGHT.
@kharl143 (343)
• Philippines
8 Apr 07
at last,finally,a fat guy like me!!:-)do you have a gf right now?
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
8 Apr 07
I think the proble is that you ahve not met the right person yet, when she comes along she will not care about that. she might try you to loose some for your health - but she will love you, despite those extra kilos. I am a girl, and I am not mrs slim myself . but i have a bf that i love and that loves me and all my kilos =)
@kharl143 (343)
• Philippines
8 Apr 07
thanks...thats why i still havent lose hope that one day she will come....
@pinokkio (352)
• Bahrain
8 Apr 07
I'm a thin guy and I have to tell you it's still not easy for me to get a girl. I think when girls say they don't care about weight or appearance of men, they are just trying to be nice. When they're around good-looking guys they lose themselves. It's just something they can't handle. The only way for people like me and you to get the girl is either get rich or get famous, my friend. Then appearances REALLY won't matter..
@kharl143 (343)
• Philippines
8 Apr 07
you are a 100% correct on that!!!but you know what my friend,i still do belive that there is still someone out there for me...as well as for you too also...all we need to do is to patiently wait,goodluck..
8 Apr 07
Well, I have several friends who are a little on the heavy side and they're happily in relationships. And I have to say that I'm a little plump myself and even though I'm married I occasionally have women asking for my number. :-) I think a lot of it depends upon how you feel about yourself and the sort of people you hang out with. If you have a bit of a downer on yourself because of your weight, other people will pick up on that and may think that if you don't like yourself, why should they be botherd enough to go out with you? Are you fat or just a little overweight? What doess you doctor think? He may be able to suggest a diet for you and an excercise plan if you want to lose weight, but ultimately it's an issue of your belief in yourself. Believe that you're worthy of getting a girlfriend and start looking for people of both sexes to be friends with. Quite often these things happen when you least expect it; stop looking for a 'girlfriend' and start looking for 'friends who might be girls' and I'm sure that soon you'll find someone who wishes to have a relationship with you. The very best of luck to you.
@kharl143 (343)
• Philippines
8 Apr 07
thaks a lot for that comment...or so to say advice...
• Malaysia
8 Apr 07
I have a couple of overweight friends who have already tied their knot. They are really nice person to friends and they loves their wives very much.
@kharl143 (343)
• Philippines
8 Apr 07
good for them....but thanks anyways for your comment.its kinda inpiring...