How would you react?

United States
April 8, 2007 7:24am CST
What would you do if your spouse just quit coming home at night? What if his attitude changed towards you and he became argumentative? Would you suspect something?
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@lightningMD (5937)
• United States
8 Apr 07
if my husband just stopped coming home at night i wouldnt suspect something i'd know something was going on...he would find his clothes on the fdront porch and the locks would be changed...i will never forgive cheating...the Bible even says that if your spouse is an adulter you may divorce them with the blessings of God..
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• United States
8 Apr 07
Good to know...mine stopped coming home at night and I think it's time I started packing for him. This can be damaging for our children but easier than them being taken away because their father can't seem to stay straight.
@paulsy (1265)
• Philippines
8 Apr 07
i actually packed my ex's stuff and kicked him out of my house two years ago when i couldn't bear all the pain my kids and i were going through for 12 years of our life because of his cheating and messing around.
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@misheleen73 (6037)
• United States
8 Apr 07
of course I wouls suspect something if my husband wasn't coming home at night. That would be a MAJOR sign. I wouldn't have to wait for anything else. I mean what type of spouse just stops coming home?
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@4cuteboys (4103)
• United States
8 Apr 07
If my spouse just stopped coming home at night with no reason, then the relationship would be over. That is clearly a sign of disrespect, and what kind of marriage can last like that? Of course I would suspect something but at that point it's obviously over and time to get a divorce and move on.
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• United States
8 Apr 07
As I suspected, thank you for your response.
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• Canada
8 Apr 07
Damn right I'd suspect something!!! That kind of change would be scary!! People don't just change like that when their intentions are honourable. I would be extremely worried, and I'd confront him. If he wasn't being honest, I'd call it the final straw, and then I'd leave!
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@Ravenladyj (22992)
• United States
8 Apr 07
Yea i would definately suspect something and I'd go off on him in a big nasty and most likely violent way for 2 major reasons....#1 we have an agreement, if one of us is interested in soemone outside the marriage thats fine BUT we are to tell each other FIRST and #2 I HATE liars...you can beat me bloody, call me names, treat me like crap but dont EVER EVER lie to me or deceive me in any way shape or form if you expect to live through the night ;-)
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@cherriemae (3375)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
yes, i will suspect something that he's doing bad outside and i will suspect that maybe he's fun with his friends or he had fun with other girl..sometimes, in a relationship we are all ready to face the trials but sometimes, if we cant hold it anymore, we need to move on and do right for our self..you need to talk to him heart to heart because you are the wife and still he's your husband..if things dont change then you better get him off into your life..
@rdorton (83)
• United States
10 Apr 07
I owuld definetly suspect something but I would have to get the whole story. If my spouse became arguementative with me something would have to be happening in his life. My dh does not argue at all. I would hope that there was a rational reason a to why he wasn't coming home. You never know now a days he could just be havng some depression and may think that its better for you and the kids if he just wasn't there. He may think that you don't want him there. But again I would have to try to get the whole story, not to say that from the get go I wouldn;t be pissed to no end.