Do you flirt when you're already taken?

Philippines
April 8, 2007 8:22am CST
For those of you already seeing someone, do you find yourself flirting at times? Maybe you mean no more than just to be friendly or you really want to cash in. Maybe your seeing if you still got it or figure you'll make their day. Maybe you don't even realize it until someone points it out to you. So i pose my question: Do you flirt? How do you flirt? Do you find yourself flirting more now or before you got together with your partner?
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9 responses
@4cuteboys (4102)
• United States
8 Apr 07
No, I have no interest in flirting and I am taken. I didn't really flirt before I was taken either, I'm just not really a flirt I guess. I guess I always got irritated with people flirting with me, so I got burnt out, lol!
• Philippines
8 Apr 07
i sometimes gets irritated with flirty people around. But i admit i also flirt but i don't think it's a good idea flirting to other guys when you're already taken.
@SomeCowgirl (32266)
• United States
31 Mar 08
I haven't flirted since I met my fiance. I have a friend that likes to flirt, however, and it makes her Fiance jealous. I never really understood the harm in it until I met my fiance, and now must disagree with my friend. Often times I feel the need to reprimand her, but clip my tongue so that we will not fight. I can not say that I haven't acted a bit friendly with a man but was never intentionally trying to flirt.
@sisco100 (2345)
• United States
31 Mar 08
all my exs say i dont but i'm just a natural flirt so sometime i dont know tht i'm doing it. sometimes i dont have interest in a person and they think i dont cuz of the fact tht i do it with out thinking. when i'm with someone every other woman means nothing to me. i think tht i talk to girls like there guys and it makes it easier to talk to them. thts maybe why my exs think i'm flirting when i'm not interested in the other person
@dangnabit67 (2021)
• United States
28 Feb 08
Ive been married 20 years. Hubby doesnt flirt anymore he doesnt think he has too. I love to flirt it makes me feel sexy and perhaps not as old as I sometimes feel-LOL Its fun and usually harmless.
@shymurl (2768)
• United States
14 Feb 08
I flirt and don't realize it until my husband points it out to me. I was an exotic dancer for five years and part of the job was flirting. After a while it just became a habit. Now i'm not dancing anymore so i'm trying to get out of that habit. But you know what they say habits are hard to break. Theres no harm in flirting, but I can see how it can be annoying.
@xtine111 (15)
• Canada
9 Feb 08
Ill admit that sometimes I do flit but I think its more my personality coming through. Im just a friendly girl and can make friends with anyone. Im the kind of person who jokes alot so I hear alot that Im a big flirt but I swear its not my fault!! Anyway I say yes but in a non knowing kind of way.
• Philippines
9 Apr 07
i dont flirt. besides, i think im a bad flirt. but when im single i just do the most thing im good at - subtleties...
@kharl143 (343)
• Philippines
8 Apr 07
i dont usually flirt....but i still have attractions with a girl...specially this officemate of mine. . .she's soooo beautiful and sexy!!!
@lecanis (16664)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
8 Apr 07
I flirt! =p It's more of a friendly/fun thing for me. I'm definitely not looking to actually be with someone other than my husband, but I act in ways that could be seen as flirty. I like to joke around, I'm a giggler, and I'm a huge fan of double entendre. I just make sure that my friends all know I'm just flirting for fun and don't mean anything by it. I suppose I flirt slightly less since I'm with someone than I would otherwise, because now I pretty much only flirt with people I know well, to avoid misunderstandings.