What do you say to a sufferring person?

Philippines
April 8, 2007 8:01pm CST
How can you handle a situation when your being face with a love one who just receive a bad prediction from a doctor? How can you comfort him/her?
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@SageMother (2277)
• United States
9 Apr 07
I have found it best to simply listen to them. You can tell them that you would like to help them, but being silent and just listening is best. Trying to reassure them too quickly will not give hem the chance to absorb the news and then decide what they need from you. The key is to wait, so that you don't make things worse.
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• United States
9 Apr 07
I agree....wonderful advice. A lot of times people just need someone to listen to them!
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• Philippines
9 Apr 07
you are right. even if i want to say something i just don't find the right words to say to her.