setting standard on finding partners..

@daryljane (3439)
Philippines
April 9, 2007 10:17pm CST
do you believe in this saying ...its funny how we set standards on who we are going to love but when were alredy in love with that certain person, we found out that its he/she doesnt have the standards that we set....i beleive in this...base on experience actually..
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@BrainTeaser (1430)
• Pakistan
10 Apr 07
Well every girl and boy have idols, in their dreams or thoughts, even though i dont think anyone had ever met his ideal yet in this world but still they make imaginary worlds girls use to have their prince charming while boys create their own princess of dreams.And yes its reality that when one meet just another person who even physically fit on his/her ideal but a good person he/she fall for them and eventually end up spending a good life altogether as their mind matches rather than bodies.So physical appearance can play only small roles in reality the only thing that matters is the personality,respect,honesty and love of the person we fall for.
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@daryljane (3439)
• Philippines
10 Apr 07
very well said..i agree on that too! thanks!
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@julaqq (141)
• Philippines
10 Apr 07
Yes. I believe in setting standards in finding partners, otherwise you'll end up marrying a gorilla! lol! In my case, my standard in finding a partner would be....: 1. the one who completes me 2. good in bed 3. accept each other's weaknesses 4. i'm beautiful so he must be handsome 5. has a good sense of humour 6. does not get bored easily 7. mature 8. loves kids 9. knows how to cook and i'll do the plumbing 10. good with financial management the the list goes on and on.. but the most important thing is the no. 1 listed above.
@daryljane (3439)
• Philippines
10 Apr 07
jula!!! you never really siezes to amze me!! love you girl!
@mizrak07 (557)
• Philippines
10 Apr 07
Yes that is true base on my experience too. I'm now in love with a man who is totally the opposite of what's on my "standard". Anyway it's only the physical standard that was not met, and I don't really care. He's a very good person and I love him.
@daryljane (3439)
• Philippines
10 Apr 07
yeah, i agree with that..no matter what he is as along as we love him..standards doesnt matter anymore..thanks for that answer