setting standard on finding partners..

Well every girl and boy have idols, in their dreams or thoughts, even though i dont think anyone had ever met his ideal yet in this world but still they make imaginary worlds girls use to have their prince charming while boys create their own princess of dreams.And yes its reality that when one meet just another person who even physically fit on his/her ideal but a good person he/she fall for them and eventually end up spending a good life altogether as their mind matches rather than bodies.So physical appearance can play only small roles in reality the only thing that matters is the personality,respect,honesty and love of the person we fall for.

Yes. I believe in setting standards in finding partners, otherwise you'll end up marrying a gorilla! lol! In my case, my standard in finding a partner would be....: 1. the one who completes me 2. good in bed 3. accept each other's weaknesses 4. i'm beautiful so he must be handsome 5. has a good sense of humour 6. does not get bored easily 7. mature 8. loves kids 9. knows how to cook and i'll do the plumbing 10. good with financial management the the list goes on and on.. but the most important thing is the no. 1 listed above.

Yes that is true base on my experience too. I'm now in love with a man who is totally the opposite of what's on my "standard". Anyway it's only the physical standard that was not met, and I don't really care. He's a very good person and I love him.