We broke up :S
By JellyBeans
@JellyBeans (639)
Canada
April 10, 2007 4:01pm CST
Hello people,
Just recently i broke up with my partner. I don't know why, but it seems as though she broke up with me. But not face to face, she just sent me an email! what a horrible way to do it.
Well that isn't the point, i'd just like to ask a question, but tell you a bit of details. I was told by many people that she was crying and was very sad etc... But if she was so sad about it and loved me so, why did she break up with me? I guess that is just her business right? Well I wasn't the one to be weak and cry. So because i didn't feel as though i should cry, i didn't. I felt sort full of myself... But i knew i wasn't, or else i'd be the one saying 'Oh yay im too beautiful for anyone' Or something less exagerated.
I don't know what to do... She seems to ignore me, even worst, i feel as though i am invisible to her, i will say 'hey' to her when we get into class, but in the end she just grabs her seat and waits for the professor to get in.
I don't know what i should do!
2 responses
@Lauraleigh99 (4718)
• United States
10 Apr 07
That is a bad way to break up with someone! You shouldn't say you won't be the weak one and cry. Crying doesn't make you weak at all. Maybe she has a good reason for the breakup I don't know the story so I couldn't tell you. It is too bad that she won't talk to you though. Maybe just give her a week or so of peace and then try to talk to her and see what is going on
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@JellyBeans (639)
• Canada
10 Apr 07
Hehe... Well unfortunately, but it has been more than a week, more around 10-13 days now... I just don't know what to do anymore as it has been a while since she stopped talking even listening to what i say. I also find it rude. I also don't know the story so i don't know if i could help!
@netski_15 (423)
• Philippines
10 Apr 07
What she did is rude :( Some really people are not strong enought to face such situation that they can't do break-ups personally. In your case, you should let go of your feeling by crying it out. This is nothing but normal to human. Let the situation cool off for a while and then try to talk to her again. Ask questions you wana know. In that way you guys will end up in good terms. I just hope she'll be willing to do this too.
