Success or Failure... Who or What made you the person your are today?

Taiwan
April 11, 2007 1:41am CST
I don't consider myslef as a successful person. I'm not a failure, either. If I had to say how I got to where I am today would be... my mom. She wasn't really strict with me as a child, she gave me a lot of freedom to do what was right. My mom let's me try anything I wanted to do, and if I wanted to quit that was fine. But, she always reminded me that if I quit something I might not have a chance to go back to it. I thank my mom for that. What about you? Who or what made you the person you are today?
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@vixel83 (212)
17 Apr 07
I think I'm successful in that I overcome all the challenges that are set to me. I'm a student at the moment, so time will tell if I become successful in the workplace too, but at the moment, I judge my success on overcoming the smaller obstacles in my life. I'm at a top ten university studying in a department which is in the top two in its field (it's always us or Sheffield at the top, and it appears to alternate), and so far I'm doing ok. I think there's success in that :)
@vixel83 (212)
17 Apr 07
Oh, and the rest of the question, lol.. I don't think there's anyone in particular who has pushed me to become successful, in fact, it's the negatives, rather than the positives, that make me want to do well. Whenever anyone infers that they don't think I can make it, I push that bit further and prove them wrong
• Taiwan
18 Apr 07
Good for you. I think if you keep that attitude when you get into the workplace no one can stop you from achieving your goals. But, don't forget to thank those who have assisted you or pushed you to go farther. Good luck
• United States
18 Apr 07
I have to say, my granny. She has always has an influence on my life. Sometimes I find myself wanting to please her and make her smile. I hate when I dissapoint her, so I try my best to use her as a drive to succeed.
• Taiwan
18 Apr 07
Good for you. My granny was very nice to me, too. But, my grandpa was the one that will influence me. He was a hard worker, and a quiet person. Too bad he's gone.
@Aussies2007 (5336)
• Australia
11 Apr 07
We are what our parents are... and there is no getting away from it. Sometimes we don't like the way our parents are doing things... and we promise ourself to be different. So we do everything differently... and guess what?... we still end up with the same results. Everyone over 25 should do an interesting little exercise. Analyse your parents. First look at what they did... and still do... then try to figure out why they did it that way... that's a little bit harder... but if you apply logic to it... you will find the answer... Once you find the answer... be prepare to be scare... because you will find out that your reasons for doing what you do are exactly the same reasons than your parents had. The only difference is that we are not exactly like our father or our mother. Instead we end up with half our father and half of our mother. The lucky ones have only the good half of both parents. The unlucky ones have the bad half of both parents.
• Taiwan
11 Apr 07
True. Thanks for the little experiment tip. I'll try it out. Hopefully, I got the goods of both my parents.
@amitksing (1323)
• India
11 Apr 07
Well, I think my career and my life is in making, so I can't really come to a conclusion as I am successful or not!
• Taiwan
11 Apr 07
I do hope you succeed. Keep positive and keep you eyes on th goal. Good luck.
@ibsnet (1268)
• India
17 Apr 07
Thanks for choosing my answer the best. Put on interesting common topics. Will try to answer.
@ibsnet (1268)
• India
16 Apr 07
At first I want to say that success have no limit. If you succeed in first challenge you face, the second must be there. So to say I am a successful person, it's truly wrong. Man today is struggling to succeed in each and every step of his life. I, personally have succeeded in some of my challenges, also failed some and tried to learn the cause of failure and again took the challenge to succeed the next one. Any person can't make you. He/she can guide you on every step of the challenges, but what you do and how you do determines the success or failure. Obviously, it is my parents who have guided me the fullest to help me succeed.
• Taiwan
17 Apr 07
Deep, very deep! Thanks for the informing response. I hear what your saying.