do you think it will happen?

Philippines
April 11, 2007 9:24am CST
if your partner has to do something.. if he has to leave you to marry another woman to fulfill his dreams.. and then he promised you that one day he will come back to you and be with you forever. do you think it will happen? do you think its for real?
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@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
11 Apr 07
what? What do you mea fulfill his dreams? I dont think you should settle for this...find someone who's dream is you. Dont wait around. It is appaling someone would say that to you! I wouldnt settle for a man like that. I think a man should be with you and only want to be with you. What kind of dreams is he fulfilling?
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• Philippines
12 Apr 07
well, i dont know. maybe a dream to make his future much better.?
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
12 Apr 07
So, how will his future be better without you?
@paulsy (1263)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
If I were in that situation, based on my partner's decision to fulfill his dreams, I would move on with my life. I would let him go and not make any expectations about his coming back. If ever he came back and I would still be around, then maybe we could start over again, but I doubt that would ever happen. I would have to consider my life, my own future, and my happiness first before I think about his happiness. There mere fact that he makes such a decision is an outright display of selfishness, so I believe there is nothing more to expect from such a person.
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
well, that's waht im planning to do. move on with my life...
@livvy092002 (1032)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
Hahaha! We girls could sometimes be too naive! I dont believe that a guy could just leave his true love like that just to fulfill his dreams! ANd the worst thing is that he would have to marry another woman to satisfy his dreams! I dont know, but this post really interests me and it made me laugh to think about the situation given. What i want to say is that girls don't believe when a guy tells you that! lolz!
@samrat16 (2442)
• India
11 Apr 07
I won't marry anybody else other than my wife. I think my life is meant for her only. It would be a sin for me to think about anybody else than my wife. I won't allow her to go any where without me. I love her and want her to be with me always.
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
well... you're wife is so lucky to have you as her loving husband! keep it up samrat!
@netski_15 (423)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
I don't think so. The fact of leaving me for another woman and marrying that woman for his dreams is totally insane. I would not marry and wait for a man who cannot fulfill his dreams alone. This only means that he is a user. Why wait when I know there's lot of guys out there, more worth it and more deserving than someone like him.
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
i dont know really... i must be really in love with him.
@bunalice (315)
• China
12 Apr 07
I think if your partner choose his dreams but not you ,he is unfaithful,I suggest you forget him.A man can realize his dream via himself,love is the real feeling from heart,love is more importance than any one.Once he choose another woman spells that you are not most importance for him,so forget him although it is very painful.Be tough!woman is the best!
@eseomame (1146)
• United States
11 Apr 07
Of course he will not come back. If he has a dream that's more important than being with you at that moment, what makes you think his next dream will be to be with you. No way for me... it won't happen!
@minty3 (592)
• Nigeria
11 Apr 07
Fa..fa..fa.. fallacy! My dear, never you fall for such treachery! How on earth will you accept to be a second fiddle wife. If you're not good enough to be first in his life, let him go and go forever cos he doesn't deserve you. A better man who deserves you is coming. Love you dear.