The two most dreaded words that a man can hear
@rebelangelseven (315)
United States
April 11, 2007 7:42pm CST
It seems that in an argument most women can win. I for one am quite intrigued at this. In fact my husband and I have had this discussion more than once. Most men when with friends and around town will act as if they "wear the pants" in the relationship, however behind closed doors a woman can win the argument by simply saying "cut off". Why is this? Does it work with you as well. Guys what do you think?
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@lonewolfnan (4366)
• Canada
12 Apr 07
It has taken me a long time to come up with 2 general rules when it comes to argueing with a spouse;
1) women are always right.
2) if by some fluke the male is right,please see rule #1.
This has saved me alot of time and embarrassment.
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@lonewolfnan (4366)
• Canada
12 Apr 07
We have been together now for 6 years and plan to be together forever.After what we have already been thru,I can't see any reason why we will not be buried together in 40 years or so.
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@rebelangelseven (315)
• United States
12 Apr 07
my husband and i have been together only two years and i feel the same way about being buried together as well. thanks for your comments and good luck.
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@rebelangelseven (315)
• United States
12 Apr 07
that is too much. i love it. thanks for the comments. but does it really work? how long has it worked for you?
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@rebelangelseven (315)
• United States
12 Apr 07
I don't necessarily take the guys side. my husband and i love debates and discussions, so i asked him to come up with a topic. this is what he came up with. i love the controversy in it. i just don't like to see a guy that upset. so if you make them feel good, it builds their self esteem. and the only guy i really like to argue with is my husband.
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@samtaylorskykierajen (7977)
• Canada
12 Apr 07
You are so right !! So many men want ohters to believe that they make all the decisions when in truth it is usually the woman and when there is an arguement to be won it is usually the woman who will win this also .
I am not sure why a man feels the need to let his friends think that the relationship is not equal as that is what it should be but would rather boast about things that are not true .
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@rebelangelseven (315)
• United States
12 Apr 07
this is true. do you ever win an argument by using the two most dreaded words "cut off"?
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@slickcut (8141)
• United States
12 Apr 07
yes you are right.the women always win the arguments..my husband told me before we got married that i was the boss,i was sorta taken back by his statement,so knowing me i pushed the issue....Well he said I learned a long time ago that men can never win so I just gave up rather than fighting,so you are the boss...Simple but true he said...Well i do not over turn my power of course,but whatever i want to do ,he goes along with it.I have never had to say you are "cut off",so thats the way its been...As you say when he is around a bunch of people he acts tough like he wears the pants...I never ask for that place,he handed it to me all by himself...........but when we are alone he always says "your the Boss" LOL
@rebelangelseven (315)
• United States
12 Apr 07
my husband and i agreed when we first got together that we would both make decissions. if i feel strongly enough about a situation i will push the envelope though. but my husband will do the same thing if he feels strongly enough.
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