are you a fault finder person?
By daryljane
@daryljane (3406)
Philippines
April 11, 2007 11:15pm CST
i have this friend that is really a fault finder... when ever someone say or do something, she tend to say that its not right or make comments about it, whenever someone say something or missed how they pronounce the word, she laugh at it and say what the exact word is..like shes acting god...and its pissibng us all off! do you do that to someone? or you tend to stay quite and leave the comment to youself?
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6 responses
@amar_sandy1987 (1876)
• India
13 Apr 07
i m a fault finder person but only in tecnical feild not in rela life i just enjoy my life and do my job ok bye
@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
ic..we need to be fault finder to find perfection when its related to work is guess..thats just fine.
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
No, I never do this to anyone. Because I also have some flaws, I don't consider myself perfect and I am a man of very few words. I don't judge people because of what they say, I just look at them of what they do and that I make sure that when I open my mouth I say good things to them and not those deconstructive criticisms.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
13 Apr 07
i am never a fault finder person. But when I'm told to do so , let in software codes, i do it very well. You can say I'm a very good tester in that way. But with people if I find fault, i try to adjust with it. If it is beyond limits them I offcourse don't bother much.
@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
good that you can control it..some poeple cant..keep it up!
@syain1972 (1011)
• Singapore
12 Apr 07
Ooooops...! I think I am a culprit to that too. I only correct my hubby, my son and my mom.... I just correct them but I do not laugh at them except to my son sometimes... Cruel isn't it! I don't do it to someone I am not close to. I'll just leave them to it..
@dcroome2005 (1210)
• United States
12 Apr 07
I was like this after I got a divorce and met new guys . I tried to find fault in everything they did because I couldn't accept the fact that I was divorced. I never do it with "freinds" though, just people I was dating. The first man I never found fault in is now my husband. I never point out faults with friends because I chose to be friends with them for their faults and all.
@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
too bad your relationship ended but the good thing is you now have a new love to cherish...its the right thing to do i guess, not to find faults in other...keep it up!
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@summergorgeous (674)
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
sometimes, i have a tendency to find fault to others then correct them. but i only do that to someone i know who wouldnt be easily offended and someone close to me. however, i dont usually do that.
anyway, i jut shut my mouth and keep my comment to myself if i really dont know the person.
@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
me too..i do it only when were really close and know each other deeper..but not to people who i dont know might get offended if i do it to her..
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