do you take care of a friend whose sick of cancer?

@daryljane (3439)
Philippines
April 12, 2007 10:17pm CST
actually, were not really close friends, its her sister whose close the family, last year she was diagnosed of breast cancer, got operated taking her other breast and is doing radiation and chemo theray at the same time..few weeks ago, she is having a hard time walking and was bed riden for 3 week before she was confined to the hospital.. the cancer cells already metaztazised on the bones and is already going to her brain..was even given 6 to 1 year to live...there is no one who will take care of her because first, she is not married, 2nd, she had made enemies with her old freinds and did not even pay her a visit, now the ones taking care of her is me and her older sisted freinds...maybe because her attituse changed because of her illness and its not easy going through that in one's lifetime! if you were in my shoes, whould you do that same..i have to admit, i have learned to care for her, and i really feel her...
2 responses
• India
13 Apr 07
my grand paa was having blood cancer i was really loving him bcoz whenever my mother use to bit me that time he supported me i mean he dont use to give to bit my mother to me so i love him he tought me many things in this world he had told me one thing that dont lisent to any one in this world just do what u r heart say to do and one he was so heplful to others also but now i cant enjoy in my childhood i use to play with him very much but what to say now
@daryljane (3439)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
yeah, i also feels great taking care of someome! thanks!
@lilaclady (28240)
• Australia
13 Apr 07
You are what is called an earth Angel, if the world was full of people like you it would be a lovely world, it is a lovely thing you are doing, I have looked after a couple of friends but they didn't have cancer, everyone deserve to have people care about them....
@daryljane (3439)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
thanks for that! right now, im always in a hurry checking on how she is doing if im not there..in fact im a little worried cos im leaving for boracay next week and dunno whose going to take care of her...hope she will be fine!