if a girl love you ,but you don't love her, how you will express your meaning ?
By sallyxu126
@sallyxu126 (1184)
China
April 13, 2007 2:46am CST
if a girl love you,but you don't love her.
And you don't want to hurt her feelings, what you will do ?
How to express your meaning without hurt?
Though I am a gril,but I am not sure what should say at this time.
My friend ask me this question and ask for help.
I advise him just tell her you already love others,but my friend think this still hurt that girl.
If this happend on you, what you will do?
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3 responses
@NiKe_bOi (165)
• Singapore
13 Apr 07
Hmmm.. well.. this is a very hard question.. as much as i dont want to hurt her.. i also dont want to give her hpe and then dash her hope.. i also very much want to keep this friendship of mine..
So i will most probably try to tell her that i and her can only be friend in a very indirect manner.. tell her that she is not my type and perhaps tell her that i already have someone in mind even if there is no one in my mind..
@babayarosun (126)
• Malaysia
13 Apr 07
I think, the best way is to reject the girl directly. i will tell her the reasons properly and clearly.If not the girl will not give up the feeling on me, this make the feeling grow deeper and deeper. and that time is more harder until me become frustrated everytime i see that girl trying to do something good on me. Besides, it won't waste that girl's time spend on me after i rejected her firmly. She can find other guys who is better than me. of course it is hurt but we can minimize the degree of the hurt before it is too late.
