Can You Fall Out Of Love??
By djdeep81
@djdeep81 (1061)
April 15, 2007 4:25am CST
Is it possible for someone to fall out of love? This is a question my brother asked me today. I said that, if you fall out of love with someone, that means you were'nt in love with them to begin with... But i really would appreciate what you guys have to say about that.
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5 responses
@bonnielass (484)
• United States
15 Apr 07
I dont think if you really loved somebody that you can actually fall out of love with them. Feelings of level of love can change and so can the intensity. Anyone who i have ever really loved i still do to this day in one form or another. There are many many forms of love.
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@romel_ece (1290)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
Yes, it is possible for someone to fall out of love.There would be handful reasons why that person will fall out of love.Various reasons such having not really in love in the first place,a constant misunderstanding, flirting with someone, and falling out of love with no apparent reason.
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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15 Apr 07
i dont feel it is possible for anyone to fall out of love. Feelings may fool us in to thinking we are in love. To me, these false feelings may fade over time and we recover from our infactuation. However, this is not love, it is a sham, a fake, an illusion of love if you like.
True love lasts a life time, the secret i guess is to recognise infactuation for what it is, simply a trick of the mind.
blessed be
@twils2 (1812)
• United States
15 Apr 07
I think that love and relationships require two people to work together to work. At times we become complacent and dont see the need for the work to keep the reationship going, so it can feel like your falling out of love. I would advice him to show her that he still cares, maybe some flowers or jewelry or something. I'm not talking about a quick fix or anything because relationships need constant maintiness and maybe some counsling for the two of them. Take care and good luck!
