What Causes You PAIN?

@anne0418 (268)
Philippines
April 15, 2007 5:34pm CST
There are many levels of pain,so many different types,but one common denominator is that we can't escape it.But for me the most hard to cope is the emotional pain.I've been dealing with this emotional pain for so many years now.I've tried to sleep through it,sometimes taking up some sleeping pills,and yet the next day when i wake up it was still there. It's easy to say to say" I never meant to hurt you, I was only concerned".Sometimes you've hurt others by being tactless,you never reviewed words you uttered and never think the consequences.I just want to say that next time be careful with your words so that there would be no flames to put out. What about you,what causes you pain?It is superficial or it is something deep?
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@lucky_witch (2711)
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
I dont treat pain as masters or monster that dominated my world... I treat it as a friend...who makes me realize the mistakes ive done, or the wrong decision i've made, the formula to make me wiser and stronger... friend to remind you that not all people will treat you fair so you must be very careful and cautious( like in the case of cheryl/chery, the one who also response with this topic... then after realizing it... I cried and embrace the pain... i cried for the things that i loss...for the things that i believe exist but then i learned was only illusions... the people i entrusted my heart but only dumped me... I cried with all of my hurt... Then I take the courage to walk out of the room... try hard to pick up the pieces...arrange my life... see what is still left in me... then fron there i start to strengthen myself...and once again face the lifes battle... this time, equiped with the lessons ive learned... strengthen by the scars of hurt... powered by the will to survive... Life is like that...we cant avoid others from hurting us... the only thing that we can do is.. PROVE TO THEM THAT WE DONT DESERVE BEING TREATED THAT WAY...and not him nor anyone else can put you down...Keep your strength... this world is battlefield... and the strongest enemy that you have to face is yourself... Let pain be your friend...let it strengthen you... do not let it to be the monster that haunts you...
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
its kaperkitty im referring to...
@anne0418 (268)
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
The only way to fight the pain that we feel is to embrace it and face it.Lets put in our mind that life not just stop there,life must go on.Lets face the world with head up hig and pick the torn pieces and face them that you are strong enough.Accept the truth,face it then maybe it never haunts you again.