have you ever been bullied???
By emjay9
@emjay9 (249)
Philippines
April 15, 2007 10:18pm CST
i once had this busmate in gradeschool. he was a boy who always picks on me. he is not even my classmate and i didn't do anything to him to get under his skin. but everytime we're in our service who always picks on me, call me names or just do something to irritate me. grrr i really hate him but i can't do anything because if i fight back he always have a counter attack 10times stronger. he really makes my temper rise!i don't know what the problem of people like them. they always take joy in bullying the misery of others. i think they are just those who can't find something good to spend their time in. they are probably just insecure or starving for attention. sad thing is there are still bullies when we grow up. life just can't exist when there is no villain. grrr have you been bullied in your life? what do you do to deal with them?
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@3r7sweetie (937)
• Philippines
16 Apr 07
I have been bullied many times when I was a kid, even in high school, and college. There are just people who are so bitter with their own life they need to make others feel miserable as they are. These kind of people are just not so happy with life they want to share their miseries with other by bullying them.
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@massageeh (965)
• Taiwan
16 Apr 07
There was a guy that always picked on me in grade 3. That was when I first moved to Canada. Because of the language barrier, he would pick on me. I actually skipped school for 1 month because of him. But, that made me stronger because when I was in grade 5 when another guy picked on me, I kicked his a**, picked him up and was about to throw him into the trash can when the bell rang. That felt so cool.
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@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
16 Apr 07
Oh yah", two incidents i can remember. I stuck up for some younger friends of mine and met this bully after getting off the bus. He said he was a boxer, but it was to late to chicken out now! well, i made short work of him. I let him give me 2 blackeyes, but he never bullied my friends or me anymore. I guess if you fight back they lose interest or start respecting you. Another time this bully would take my comics and call me names. I moved away from that town, but moved back when i was older. I met up with that bully and the fight was on! I beat him and hurt him and i didn't feel to good. After i found out he wasn't hurt to bad, i was relieved and i felt proud! Fighting is not the best way, but sometimes it is the only way,,,out!
Take care Emjay9.
@emjay9 (249)
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
well fist fight sure isn't my thing but i'm tougher now. i don't let anyone boss me around or step on me. i know how to fight but i use my brains instead of my fists. and sometimes just ignoring them saves me all the effort of having a discussion with them..take care too =)
