how would you feel and what would you do?
April 15, 2007 11:44pm CST
Yesterday, my bf and I went to a nearby cafe. I read a forwarded post from one of my friends regarding one's personality through zodiac sign. I then shared the said post to my boyfriend. After he had done reading the title he abruptly and blutantly asked me what's with CANCER? Without even finding his sign first nor mine. Now, his zodiac sign is scorpio and mine is Libra. I was astound. I know his ex birthday and it falls under the cancer sign. That was deliberate. And I felt devastated. He'd asked sorry for many times after that but then I am not in the mood to settle things out. I know this stuff is kinda petty but this means something to me. I made a conclusion that maybe he's not really inlove with me. Am I being sensitive or over reacting? Hope to hear your views. thank you!
23 Apr 07
Well, he should have been more considerate.Even if he was thinking of Cancer without thinking about his ex,I'd think he shouldn't have mentioned it before you.Generally ,Scorpions aren't so discourteous.I know because I am one myself.Perhaps it was an isolated case .If he apologized several times,I think you should excuse him letting him know that it was unwarranted.
7 May 07
maybe you are right! he is still attached to his ex. and maybe he left her just due to an ego problem and made friends with you. im not saying that he doesn't like you or he is cheating on you. its just that matters of the heart are so complicated that one often tends to hurt someone unintentionally. by the way i am a cancerian too. as far as i know cancerians are moody fools(which i am!!Lol!) and they should never be trusted. so tell him this and then maybe he'd realise that you are certainly more special than all other girls he has met.:D
7 May 07
Thanks worthy, you are very right, matters of the hearts are so bizarre sometimes. Perhaps it would be better if I will just take things lightly. In any case, that said petty incident is not the measure of how well my relationship with him anyway. Thanks also, I know I am special in my own little ways. And I believe all of us no matter what our zodiac is.
• Sri Lanka
7 May 07
I guess this has been resolved, but I just want to share my experience too. It was last year or 2 years ago. I was thinking that we should practice Q & A about each other just in case we are called for the game "how well do you know your partner".When i asked him what zodiac sign I fall? hmmmm ... he doesn't know! For so many years... 9years then? he doesn't know?I was frustrated with that.