how to get rid of a man you dont want no more
By faithworster
@faithworster (69)
United States
April 15, 2007 11:57pm CST
i am with the father of my 2 kids but its not a good relationship, we fight all the time and its not good for my kids. but i try to get out but he wont leave me alone. he tracks me down or calls me late at night checking up on me, asking questions who iam with who did i talk to today. i need help please . how do i get him to leave me alone
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@angelbear16434 (267)
• United States
16 Apr 07
hi my real life friend, the only advice i can give you onthis is, you might have to get a pfa on him like i had to on physco. and if he brakes it once dont hesitate to call the police on him. then tell him if he doesnt leave you alone your going toget for harrassment and if he doesnt stop then charge him its the only way he is going to stop cause he thinks he has control of you and he knows he is getting away withit all right now. show himhe isnt your boss stop himnow put him in his tracks.
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@angelbear16434 (267)
• United States
16 Apr 07
do what i did i had to or he would of killed me lie have someone hit you take a picture and tell them it was him that did and get your pfa
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@faithworster (69)
• United States
16 Apr 07
well my real life friend you know how it works in pa he has to leave a mark on you or do somthing real bad for that to happin so what nexts my friend
@sassymama1974 (178)
• United States
7 Mar 09
In the state of Pa you can get a pfa without a mark its called abuse emotional,physical and verbal abuse its so easy to get one its not even funny.If Faith wanted to really put a pfa on her ex you would but she wont!
@VotreAmie (3028)
• United States
16 Apr 07
Hi faithworster and welcome to mylot. I'm sorry that it's your relationship is not working. I agree that if you are fighting all the time it's not good for the kids. If you are still living with him but don't want to be with him anymore then you need to separate, move to another place or make him move out. That's only my point of view and I don't want to influence you in any way. The decision is up to you and you have to think well before deciding on anything.
If you are not living with him anymore in the same place then it's easy to avoid him. Don't answer his calls.
Good luck.
@faithworster (69)
• United States
16 Apr 07
well thank you for the comment but i live in pa and this state you have to talk to him un till your kids are so old they can do it on there own so what can i do untill then theres not much i can do about it untill they get to that age
@sassymama1974 (178)
• United States
7 Mar 09
You do not have to talk to him just drop the kids off and leave no you stick around for a banging and then u leave to go party
@hmike_d (1529)
• Philippines
16 Apr 07
Its tough by the way. I must assume that you guys knows each other much. You started well before you got you 2 kids. Maybe you just need a communication and be transparent enough with what you want to happen between you and the father of your kids. Does he know that you dont love him anymore? or maybe he still believe all things are good and he can't stay away from you because he loves you.
Suggests to have a clear conversation to speak out all good things to do. Because it could affect your kids specially in their perception.
