marriage

China
April 16, 2007 1:31am CST
now as more and more yong people they don't want to get married.what is the reason?
4 people like this
14 responses
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
i think young people don't want to get married because they feel that they haven't enjoyed being single yet. they are still in a certain age that all they wanted is to go out and enjoy being free. getting married will change their lifestyle as a whole. they may also be aware that getting married is very difficult especially if you are not yet ready and mature to enter this phase of life.
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
sorry about the double posts.
@LouanneB (54)
• Canada
17 Apr 07
I think marriage is very scary for many young people today, because there is such a high rate of separations and divorces. Many men and women are also worried that things will change, because they often do. They may have seen family members or friends losing plenty over time. The church has also changed along with different morals. I think this may have had an impact on the amount of marriages today.
• India
17 Apr 07
devotion ,love and honesty are most imp for gud marriage and today people are lacking this so.....
@jay_em93 (99)
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
They don't want to get married because they're too young in the first place. Second is that most of the young couples we know tend to separate after a couple of years and then there's the baby to think of. SOme who got pregnant don't even want to get married anymore because they're not ready for a commitment. They don't want to marry just because they got pregnant.
• Japan
17 Apr 07
I think its commitment, today more and more young adults are afraid of commitment. They think that being committed in a relationship is more of a tie down that anything els in the world.
@dora81 (285)
• China
17 Apr 07
in order to omin the trouble which the divorce brings.many people choose do not marry,only enjoys the pleasure which lives together....v
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
wedding photo - marriage for the young
i think young people don't want to get married because they feel that they haven't enjoyed being single yet. they are still in a certain age that all they wanted is to go out and enjoy being free. getting married will change their lifestyle as a whole. they may also be aware that getting married is very difficult especially if you are not yet ready and mature to enter this phase of life.
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
Welcome to mylot! Most young people do not want to get married because they see the effet of marriage in our society. They may have seen the negative effects of it, i.e divorce, separation, quarrels and etc. Most of the couples do not take marriage seriously and end up in separation. That is my opinion. But still others may be looking for that special person or maybe they just want to live life firt without any obligations but to themselves before going inot the bond of marriage so that they can concentrate on rearing up a family in the future.
@sallyxu126 (1185)
• China
17 Apr 07
they are afraid of marriage . For one hand, high divorce rate let us afraid of this. For another hand, we like single life more. However,marriage can also bring you happy,when you fall in love, why not married ?
@mssnow (9493)
• United States
16 Apr 07
My sons are 23, 21 and 19. They don't even have a girlfriend yet. by their age i was married. My oldest son has made his career in the army. he likes being there. My middle son's working on his college degree and thats all he has time for. My youngest son never goes anywhere so he doesn't meet anyone. I have no clue why things have changed but they have.
• India
16 Apr 07
As u know Variety is a spice of life ... i guess this is the thing goin among youngsters they spendin time wit each othr for a while then find it borin so seperate frm each othr , this isnt luv its just infatuation n so people end up, people who luv each other get married.
• India
16 Apr 07
According to me marriages are made in heaven. I think for each and every person there is somebody selected. The difference is that someone is going around and the rests are waiting. But now a days thinkings have been changed. Most of the people think that if they r involved in marriages they will not get independency. so they ignore marriages but have affairs and can carry on with it till last.
@rjdreyes (157)
• Japan
16 Apr 07
Well, it is really not the case, young people don't want to get involved in marriage, because they aren't ready yet to commit their life in family, or they see something like here in the philippines, our economy is becoming unstable and our country is poor, so young people here, thinking about their own future. And also they want to finish their studies and be able to go on abroad to work and earn more money.
@ela2pso (364)
• Philippines
16 Apr 07
hello ellenja perhaps they just find it as a waste of money but it isnt good to live with ur loveones without a foundation of marriage. it was a bit serious if u do but people who dont want to have a relationship under marriage might not taking their partners seriously. what do ya think so? thanks anyway and enjoy using mylot