fertility..my story

United States
April 16, 2007 5:47pm CST
i had my daughter, without trying to conceive when i was 23 yrs old. me and her father didnt work out so i left him in az and moved back to nj to be with family. i met my husband in 2000 and we married in 2001 and started trying to conceive right away. it took almost a year of trying, glucophage and an insemination but i got pregnant in june of 2002. i had jd in feb of 2003. i was told then by ob/gyns that i may never be able to get pregnant on my own and if i wanted another baby i shouldnt wait too long and i should just schedule an insemination. well i told my husband that i wanted to schedule the insemination for dec or jan or 2003 so i could have a sept baby. he said lets just wait another year. i was upset and angry with him but i accepted it. well..in jan 04, i found out i was pregnant. i had ryder in sept 04...my sept baby!! then i tried for one month to get pregnant again when ryder was 6 months old and the next month i found out i was pregnant with jesse. i had him in dec 05. lexi was born in nov 96. so doctors lie. they just dont know it all. has anyone else been told that they probably wouldnt be able to have kids or more kids and then they defeated the odds?? i hear this a lot and i was just wondering what your stories are!!
2 responses
@stacy624 (2777)
• Canada
17 Apr 07
Doctors are humans and sometimes I don't even think they know what they are talking about! I believe God wanted you to be a mother 3 times over after your daughter. God had a plan and knew you would have 3 more children in your life. I am really Happy that you were able to get pregnant on your own and to experience this with a positive outcome. To all Women who has been told they cannot have children Look at Mama4 kids and she was told! Best wishes all Stacy
• United States
17 Apr 07
i believe the same thing. god has a plan and that is that. sometimes i think that people experience infertility for a reason. maybe they need to see how strong they are or maybe their partner just isnt the one and that is a good way to see how a person is going to react in a stressful situation. thank you for your nice response.
@ravinskye (8242)
• United States
16 Apr 07
a friend of my has endometriosis(doubt thats spelled right) doctors told her she probably couldn't have kids, she found out she was pregnant a few weeks later.
• United States
17 Apr 07
good for her!! congrats to her!! see...not everything a dr says is written in stone!!! glad to hear that she is pregnant!!