do you think a two girls can rais a baby?
By Danewlyweds
@Danewlyweds (195)
United States
April 16, 2007 9:48pm CST
i want a baby so bad but i would never want to hurt my child and being with a girl might. I would never want any one to think bad about my child or treat him or her bad and i know how people think i have not been gay my whole life. when i was little that was something that was made fun and looked down apon and i dont want that for my child i dont want him or her to hate us or resent us or feel that they have to fight for or because of us this is our disision not his or hers and i dont want him or her to have to suffure frome it. I read a magazine when i was little about a girl talking about her parents she had to loving dads that had raised her and she was proud of them even though she got a lot of stuff from jerks and kids at school and thats when i thought diffrently about gays and i just dont want to put my daughter or son through that. any advice would help.
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@krsweetgirl (97)
• United States
17 Apr 07
I dont think that it matters if you are with a girl or a guy. The important thing is that the child is loved and taken cared of. Yes it might be a little rough for them but if they are loved they will be secure about who they are and it wont matter what others have to say.
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@krsweetgirl (97)
• United States
17 Apr 07
You are welcome and I wish you luck and hope that things work out for you in what ever you choose to do.
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@lilyruth (723)
• United States
3 May 07
I feel that two women can raise a baby maybe not two girls but if they are mature enough to take on the responsibilities of motherhood what could be better then having two mothers who will love and cherish and teach the child values. Look at the child who has had both mother and father many of those have grown up into child molesters,killers, etc. no its up to the women and how they bring up the baby don't worry about what others think cuz they are going to think the worst of you both anyway without or with a baby. Just be happy and that is all that matters.
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
30 Apr 07
I think gay parents are fine. They usually put a lot of thought into having a baby and when the baby is born it is into a family with two parents that love them very much and want them very much. How could a kid go wrong with a start as good as that. I think that kids get picked on for a variety of reasons and it's what makes us strong. I think you should have a child if that is what the two of you want. If people are cruel it is just a reflection on their unhappiness. In this day and age people should accept families for what they are as long as they are happy. Good luck
@Jesikka06 (184)
• United States
30 Apr 07
i dont think it matters if two females raise a child, i have to good friends that want to have children one day and they are a couple, and i cant help but to think that will make wonderful parents. i think if you yourself and the person your with want a child together then its ok as long as your both passionate about it
