if somebody doesn't love you anymore!

Philippines
April 16, 2007 11:33pm CST
what will you do? will you insist to love him, eventhough he doesn't care for you anymore? how would you handle the situation, how will you cope the feelings of being alone? will you ask yourself why? do you feel sorry for yourself?
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6 responses
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
i've been through the situation.. you know it takes time.. don't force yourself.. if your heart still wants to love him, then go on.. time will come you yourself would realize it's no longer worthy and that you have stop.. i felt sorry for him not for myself.. i realized that life has to go on and though its lonesome but hey you've got people who you call friends you can turn to.. and most importantly pray to God.. He'll surely help..
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
17 Apr 07
yep. there will always be friends who are there for you no matter what and family members who are willing to take care of you as well. soon, you'll find happiness with them and forget the pain you gained through the bad experiences you once had.
@rohan116 (33)
• India
17 Apr 07
i will find the reason why she dont love me anymore. then i will do the things which might be helpful to get her back. i will try to find my mistakes and will try to recify them if i really want her back. but if i feel that she is in love with someone else and having no interest in me, i will let it go since feelings cant be develop forcibly. ofcourse i will feel very lonely and it might take lot of time for me to heal from this wound, but still if she is happy i will try to be happy... that is love.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
17 Apr 07
if somebody does not love me anymore, it's better to let that person go. i hate the idea of forcing myself to someone who does not love me anymore. i deserve to love and be loved in return. if someone can't love you back, it's not worthy to stay in that relationship anymore. i believe that love is a two way thing... give and receive... love and be loved... care and be taken cared of. being along will hurt. cry if you must. but don't let the pain and sorrow overcome your whole being. cry until you can cry no more. until you feel numb and can't feel pain anymore. i know it's difficult. but the way i look at it, breaking up with someone is easier than coping up after the break up. but after someone, you'll learn to love yourself more... and you will stand up again and get back on track.
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@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
i have been in this situation often in my past and now, i have learned to deal with it by not forcing myself unless i know the person loves me and i will definitely fight for it. i have learned that if you love that person , let her go and let do what she wants to do and her happiness would be the end result and i am better off without her or else i would only feel miserable.i have learned to be alone and it is not all that lonely once we know how to love ourselves more. at first i would feel sorry for myself and soak in depression but after that , move on.
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• Philippines
17 Apr 07
I actually feel that before. It is so hard to know that you are not love by the person you love. In my case, I force things. I try to win him back. I became so stupid in front of my friends and other people. I didn't care. But the worst thing is, I didn't win him back. The lesson I've learned: learn to let go. If you force things according to what you want, you will end up as a looser. Just let go and wait for the right love to come along. Cry for some time, to release the pain it brought you. But never live with your past. It will do no good. Just learn from all the mistakes you've had. Never give up. Survive life, for it will make you stronger. Even the world hates you for what you've done, don't be affected. Instead, take it as a challenge. Don't regret everything that you have done. Think that it all happens for a reason.
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@paulsy (1263)
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
If he doesn't love me anymore, then it's time to let go. Letting go are words so easy to say, but extremely difficult to do. It is hard to be alone, but what could be harder than enduring the pain of having a one-way relationship? That would definitely make you feel sorry for yourself. On the other hand, letting go may hurt at the beginning. Eventually, things will go back in place. As they say, time heals all wounds... and who knows, there might be somebody more deserving who's just waiting around for you, right?
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