Do REAL people truly eat their dinners in "courses"?

United States
April 17, 2007 3:05am CST
I was watching a show the other day and this family seriously dined with individual courses. I started to wonder if I'm strange or they were? LOL I basically have a meat, veggie, starch and sometimes a dessert but not always. I rarely will have a salad first then the meal but sometimes I'll do that. Most often if we have salad we have it at the side of our main dish. Do you eat "courses" or do you eat it as one meal? Just curious if I'm weird or they were? LOL
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@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
17 Apr 07
Hahaha my sister does this, she serves the salad first, then the meat, then the pasta. She acts like she's having dinner at the White House. LOL I want everything on the same plate so I can eat it all together.
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• United States
19 Apr 07
LMAO... why does this not surprise me? *wink* Well you'll be glad to know that when you come to dinner here it's all on one plate until dessert and washed down with a Diet Pepsi buddy! You and I will just slum it, eh?
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@destroyer (784)
• Pakistan
17 Apr 07
LOL! hockeygal you aint weird neither is the family who is eating dinner in "Courses"! it just shows they have too much time on their hands. Looks like me and you share our meal routines! i also dont eat dinner in "Courses", i will sometimes have dessert at the end of dinner and salad at the side of main dish.
• United States
19 Apr 07
Well thank goodness! LOL I thought perhaps I was completely lacking of any class.... no comment from anyone or I'll bop ya! LOL Glad to see I'm not alone thinking that taking hours for dinner is a bit much!
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@kgwat70 (13388)
• United States
17 Apr 07
My dinner varies from day to day as sometimes I eat my meals in courses and sometimes it is individually. My dinner patterns are never the same as sometimes I am not as hungry as other evenings or do not have a lot of time. Yesterday I had steak and veggies along with a salad. Sometimes I eat just a tv dinner or something really simple like cereal or eggs.
• United States
17 Apr 07
Until I came to the States dinner was always served in courses and the first course was removed before the second course was brought to the table. In the States what with buffets and B-B-Qs everthings is so much more informal. I think for people nowadays mom ,or the hostess, dont want to keep get up to fetch things so it is all put on the table at once (with exception of dessert.
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• United States
19 Apr 07
Heck, with buffets for restaurants it's more like cattle grazing! LOL Although, come to think of it.... I tend to be more in a "courses" style with the buffets as I'll go up, get a salad, then perhaps a cup of soup, then back again for the meat and taties and then go for the dessert. So technically I'm one classy grazing cow! LOL
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• United States
29 Apr 07
LOL.... true. The real cattle are truly probably more civilized!
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@cjsmom (1423)
• United States
17 Apr 07
We're lucky if we even get to eat a meal together as a family with the hours my husband works. Usually, if I have a salad, it's a meal on it's own. If I were to eat a salad and then try to eat the entree, etc., it just wouldn't work; I'd be too full and would be a waste of good food.
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• United States
19 Apr 07
I was thinking the same thing.... I fill up quickly (I know, hard to believe but I swear it's the truth LOL) and if I had to wait to be served in between and different items I'd be full by the end of the dang soup and salad portions!
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• United States
29 Apr 07
OMG... that is soooooo much the truth! If I would just slow down I'd realize my fullness too. LOL I tend to eat quick and I think it stems from my college years of literally having a few minutes between classes and dinner hour. Drove me crazy! But I've been at a restaurant where they serve the items one at a time and it's not unusual to eat a salad and be full and wonder how I'm ever going to eat the other stuff! I usually end up taking it home!
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@cjsmom (1423)
• United States
28 Apr 07
I know what you mean. If I stop eating for a few minutes then I might as well stop until I'm hungry again, because, as you say, by the time the next course comes to the table I'm already full. So I find that I eat quickly to try to get all or most of all my food into my stomach before it tells me I'm full. That's why I'm still overweight. If I took my own advice, I'd take a few bites of something and then wait...lol.
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• Singapore
17 Apr 07
I only eat my meals in courses if I have them at a restaurant. That's how they serve the dishes anyway. But if I am at home, I just have everything in one go. But then again, I don't have starter or desserts usually - just the main course. :P
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@Island_Geko (3759)
• Canada
18 Apr 07
Meal - 3 course meal
I guess it depends if the meat is still in the oven, then I would eat my salad first (only if I was really hungery) but I usually eat my salad with my meal and dessert I eat way later in the night so the meal will digest and I will not over eat and get sick. The only time I really eat in course is at a restaraunt but that is only on dates and fancy meals. It just seems silly.
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• India
19 Apr 07
You are perfect.Why shold you follow what others do,as long as you are notviolating any societal norms.In inda,most people are veg and among them too you will find different eating habits.If you catogorise them then they would exceed thousand.Enjoy your food.
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@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
17 Apr 07
Courses are for formal dining. You know when you eat in restaurant and they bring the bread first, then the salad, then the soup then the meal, then the dessert. That's all it is. You often see it portrayed in TV households of people who have a lot of money and servants. This may be the norm for the moneyed and TV and other people who eat in fancy restaurants all the time. But NO, REAL people grab what they can, shove it in their mouths and run. Once in a while I can persuade my three teenage boys and husband to sit down to a decent meal, usually Sunday's middle meal (dinner) and occassionally for supper during the week. I have never considered us normal or real by any means, though. LOL. My life is just a Fig Newton of my imagination.
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@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
19 Apr 07
Normal? I am not familiar with the intricacies of this concept actually. I was born with abnormal vision which disallows seeing life as others do.
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• United States
19 Apr 07
Normal is overrated anyways! LOL I suppose if I had nothing better to do then spend hours on dinner and have someone serve me I could do it.. but wow.. I think I'd get bored too easily! LOL
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• United States
17 Apr 07
Until I came to the States dinner was always served in courses and the first course was removed before the second course was brought to the table. In the States what with buffets and B-B-Qs everthings is so much more informal. I think for people nowadays mom ,or the hostess, dont want to keep get up to fetch things so it is all put on the table at once (with the exception of dessert).
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• United States
19 Apr 07
Wow... you're really burping! Better get the computer some tums or send a bottle of Pepto Bismol to Mylot's computers? LOL
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• United States
17 Apr 07
Until I came to the States dinner was always served in courses and the first course was removed before the second course was brought to the table. In the States what with buffets and B-B-Qs everthings is so much more informal. I think for people nowadays mom ,or the hostess, dont want to keep get up to fetch things so it is all put on the table at once (with the exception of dessert).
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• United States
19 Apr 07
Is your computer burping? LOL I've been getting double posts lately too!
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@EdwardF (431)
• United States
24 Apr 07
I can't ever remember having a dinner in courses unless a course was not done yet. I like my whole meal at once. Even if I have a salad or soup.
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@rx4life (1930)
• United States
17 Apr 07
I don't ever serve in courses unless it is a very formal dinner with guests and then it would be so rare...I do serve salads on the table before the main course is placed...but that's for my own convenience..not to insist that anyone eat the salad first...and when dessert is served it usually is a bit after the dinner is done..but not in a formal way...sort of because we want to enjoy the dessert and therefore wait a few minutes to "digest"...but the overall answer is "no"...I don't serve in courses on a normal day...LOL..in fact some days the pot of soup is the entire meal and is served from the stove!!!!
• United States
19 Apr 07
So I also confess we've actually been in such a hurry we've taken forks to the pot and eaten together out of one pot? LOL I confess... only once or twice.. but we've done it!
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• Philippines
18 Apr 07
yah sometimes it happend when im attending a birthday or a special ocassion the foods served in courses... but if im in the house i dont care which food i eat i will start ...
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@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
17 Apr 07
The only time I've eaten in courses was when I'd go on a cruise. They would serve the meal that way. Your appetizer, soup or salad and then the main meal were served to you. At home we eat like you do. Perhaps a salad on the side but usually it's the meat, vegetable, startch, possibly a bread and then afterwards maybe desert if we have it. We don't do courses either at home.
@gemini1960 (1161)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
no i dont eat in courses especially on restaurants its costly cant afford to have one just plained one in fast food if i got the time and the money.
@mayenskie (1307)
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
In my whole life i have eat in courses just twice, that was in some fancy restaurants. I was young then and remembered wondering why we were only served soup. Little did i know it was only an entree and the main dish would follow. Too bad, i was filled up with too much asparagus soup when the main dish was served. At our house, we put everything in the table at once when we sit down to eat. Sometimes we have desserts, other times none.
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@kitkat1 (1227)
• Canada
18 Apr 07
Well honey u are not weird because if you are there are alot of weirdos out there and i am one of them. I believe most people eat as we do. I always thought of the social elite and the rich and famous to be the ones to eat in courses. They in turn are not weird either it is there thing. But the only courses that are at my dinner table is my little girl singing sometimes while we dine lol.
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@lenapoo (678)
• United States
17 Apr 07
Not unless we are having dinner with some guests or durnig, but any other time we usually just eat everything at one time.
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• Philippines
17 Apr 07
hi!!! me coz im in a diet, im on a low carbo. i just ear veggie meat but absolutely no rice/potato. i havent eat rice/potato for almost 5 months already.
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