So today my husband says to me...
By Jennifer21
@Jennifer21 (2476)
United States
April 18, 2007 12:18am CST
"Jennifer, this house is a damn mess, I work all day and have to come home to this!?" I was so angry! Does he not realized all that I do around the house?
I must admit, I am not the best housewife, but I do keep up the dishes, laundry, vacuuming, sweeping, ect. I even have to take care of two children, give them baths, clothe them, brush their teeth, feed them, go shopping, run my errands, and not to mention getting some time to get online and make money. It seems all my efforts are in vain when my husband comes home and criticizes me.
I wonder if we were to switch places how the scenerio would be.
I can't help having a messy house. Everytime I pick op my childrens toys, they are right back out again. I do my best and I wish my husband would give me some slack. Do any of you also have this problem with your spouse?
3 responses
@steveyu85 (186)
• Malaysia
18 Apr 07
can a baby sitter or maid get the house cleaner? I don't feel that a maid is good, the mother is the best person to take care of the children. It is different to have a mother and a maid to take care of the children. Children need love from mother. Will go out and be a career woman solve this "mess house problem"?
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
18 Apr 07
Men! I know the feeling men are born to gripe about anything and everything. My husband yells at me alot to becuase there never seems to be enough time in the day to do all that he wants. And like you if I do it sometimes half hour later it is messed up. Maybe he should realize this also womenneed a break to and tell him he didn't marry a slave or a maid and he wants the house spotless he can hire one to run after everyone cleaning everything back up lord you would be constantly cleaning if you were to keep i as he wants and notime for yourself..you need time for yourself.. you might be a wife,a mother, a maid,etc.. but your alos a woman and you need that time for yourself to relax because it will help you be a better person in the end.
@steveyu85 (186)
• Malaysia
18 Apr 07
you have do the best to keep the house clean. The only problem that your husband seem like do want to understand your condition. Come back from home and yell at you saying that the house is a damn mess. It is pretty hard to get the house clean especially when you have two children to take care of. I understand although I am not a woman. It is important to get your man understand about this. It is not that you are lazy, you have done your best.
