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myLot reputation of 96/100. kitkat1 (1128)2 years ago

I think of gossip around the same lines of rumors they are pretty much the same in content dont you think? But is one more damaging or should i say more hurtful than the other? I often thought about that one and could never come up with and answer for it. I try not to gossip but sometimes you do and dont realize it cause maybe a good friend will tell you something and you think well my friend never lied to me before and perhaps she didnt lie but someone lied to her and once you repeated what your friend said you have just spread gossip and didnt even realize it. This has happened to me many time and now i find myself analyzing what everyone tells me before i say a word and sometimes i never repeat it. How do you feel about this? Have you been a victim of gossip?

 
 
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kathy77 (6951) response was accepted on 4/22/2007.
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tags:  gossip, rumors, damaging, poop talk, rumor
 
1. myLot reputation of 73/100. roztredtoes (1912)   2 years ago

Without gossip, men would not have any thing to talk to each other about so they would drink more beer and spend more time in the bathroom which could get people to gossiping, mostly the girls.You do know that jesus died on the cross for the sins of women who gossip, its that bad.


myLot reputation of 69/100. Graymsqtech (501)  2 years ago

I think this is horrible stereotyping. all people gossip to much and men and women just do it differently.


myLot reputation of 73/100. roztredtoes (1912)  2 years ago

What is stereotyping I am not good at english, would you please explain what you meant and what I said,I am not sure if what I said was what I thought I said, and since you know what I said would you please say it again so I will know what to say next time I decide to say something about saying something I thought I said but really didn't say at all, thank you!


myLot reputation of 73/100. roztredtoes (1912)  2 years ago

What is stereotyping I am not good at english, would you please explain what you meant and what I said,I am not sure if what I said was what I thought I said, and since you know what I said would you please say it again so I will know what to say next time I decide to say something about saying something I thought I said but really didn't say at all, thank you!


myLot reputation of 73/100. roztredtoes (1912)  2 years ago

What is stereotyping I am not good at english, would you please explain what you meant and what I said,I am not sure if what I said was what I thought I said, and since you know what I said would you please say it again so I will know what to say next time I decide to say something about saying something I thought I said but really didn't say at all, thank you!

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2. myLot reputation of 69/100. Graymsqtech (501)   2 years ago

I think we should ignor gossip as listening can cause great harm to us and those we gossip about. If you dont know that it is true dont repeat it. Dont base your knowledge of an event by some secondhand information.


myLot reputation of 73/100. roztredtoes (1912)  2 years ago

I quess if we go by your code of knowledge, that rules out all religions and the bible can be a sourse of toliet tissue for the next hundred years.

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3. myLot reputation of 90/100. kathy77 (6951)   2 years ago

Oh yes gossip and rumour are the same to my way of thinking. It all depends on what is said actually, but they normally are very hurtful. I also try not to gossip as this can hurt the person that you are gossiping about. It certainly makes you think twice before you repeat what you have heard. Yes I have been a victim of gossip and it did hurt especially it was a lie as well.

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