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myLot reputation of 95/100. cherriemae (1898)   ranked 333 out of 28,135 in people2 years ago

me, eversince, i dont want to be a member of that group because i dont like the way they treated the new members, like paddling the legs that sometimes, it can lead to death by a member..are they really true friends to their members? are there benefits that you can get from that group? are you willing that your kids will go to that group? thanks for sharing..

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 82/100. miryam (4897)   ranked 1,275 out of 28,135 in people   2 years ago

They are partner dell'associuazione of my disease multiple sclerosis, and aid to make collections deep, also for l'aids, it appeals to to make voluntary service to me, for 7 month have been president, but I got tired myself too much and I have had to discharge to me.

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2. myLot reputation of 90/100. kathy77 (6951)   ranked 1,858 out of 28,135 in people   2 years ago

No I am not a member of fraternity/sorority, I have never heard of this particular site and it sounds like I was very lucky that I never was due to what you have said here about how they treat their members. So thank you for telling your friends here what this particular site is like.


myLot reputation of 90/100. rarrimalion (608)   ranked 3,357 out of 28,135 in people  2 years ago

its not a site. Frats and sororities are "greek" and are like social organizations/service clubs on college campuses...at least thats what they were originally.

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3. myLot reputation of 90/100. rarrimalion (608)   ranked 3,357 out of 28,135 in people   2 years ago

No i am not. At my college they haze pretty bad and have a really pledging process-you basically have to do whatever they say 24 hours a day, you cant go anywhere along, you have stupid unpleasant things they make you do every day and they are VERY mean and unkind to you. I don't understand how someone who treats you like crap for 6 weeks can suddenly be your "friend" over one night when you cross over. I don't need to buy my friends either, it costs a lot of money here to be in one. I can make friends on my own without paying money, without being abused, and degraded, and without conforming to the rules that THEY set forth. And all they do around here is drink constantly...theres more to my life than getting drunk all the time. My personality is too individualistic to be in one, although I think for some people they have personalities that LIKE that type of structure, so I can see why some people join up.

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. queenie_sum (2450)   ranked 219 out of 28,135 in people   2 years ago

never, i have never been a member of a sorority or fraternity, when i was in college, there were some offers and you can't avoid it, there's always someone who will approach you and offer you things that never you've think of. i have never been interested in a group where you will have protection. i don't want to join and I'm contented with my group of friends. i don't need a mass addition. i don't believe that you need someone or a group to protect you because i have been a good student and never stepped down on somebody else's foot or principles.


myLot reputation of 98/100. maryannemax (10495)   ranked 248 out of 28,135 in people  2 years ago

yep. you will get lots of offers to join their groups every now and then. they tell you things that might make you feel you want to join them,too.

but for me, just like queenie, i am satisfied with the friends and the people who cares for me. i don't need the kind of protection such groups are offering.

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5. myLot reputation of 98/100. maryannemax (10495)   ranked 248 out of 28,135 in people   2 years ago

i don't have kids yet. but as for me, i am not a member of any sorority nor had been a member of it before. i never even thought of thinking of joining one.

i don't want to hurt myself and most of all, i don't want others to hurt me.

i have lots of friends and i have lots of people who know me and love me already. they don't need to hurt me in anyway just to accept me in their lives. we even take care of each other. so, i don't think i need such an environment for me to feel safe and to have friends.

 
6. myLot reputation of 81/100. denden (783)   ranked 5,860 out of 28,135 in people   2 years ago

I am not interested to join that kind of organization eversince.Even if my parents would allow me to join that organization i will not join.Because i have heard that many died in their initiation and that kind of activities is life treathening.

 
7. myLot reputation of 85/100. mypeace (268)   ranked 7,595 out of 28,135 in people   2 years ago

Everybody has right to join any society and group they feel like. What l like might not be what another persons likes. life is all about choice, whether good or bad, people will make a choice. Most times, we makes choices that affect our future, and regret it later.
As an individual l wont join a group that will inflict injury on me, niether would l allowed my children to do so.
However, l dont frown at people who are members, they have their reasons for being there, whether bad or good reason, is their choice and l respect it.
cheers.

 
8. myLot reputation of 94/100. vmks31 (7459)   ranked 4,200 out of 28,135 in people   2 years ago

I am responding to these discussions from my email alerts so thats why I am here I doubt that a 75 year old man belongs to any fraternity/sorority and looking back at my 6 years in a honours degree program at the University of Toronto the answer is still no because i was too busy studying and trying to support my young family I think they are not as popular as they used to be but i have no stats to prove that No my chidren are through and they also shied away from those groups Good Luck

 
9. myLot reputation of 47/100. revdauphinee (4128)   ranked 4,196 out of 28,135 in people   2 years ago

no and i dont particularly care for them from what i know!I would discourage kids from joining them

 
10. jeramie (21)   ranked 27,672 out of 28,135 in people   2 years ago

no,never and i dont want to. its just a matter of having lots of friends and being popular..

 
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