Love Pain can make us smart?

When i been at australia for vacation i found my first love, we go out together and do some stupid things together,sharing our sweet moments and sharing some dreams together. When i come back in the philippines coz my tourist visa was end, we have a very nice conversation on that time, evryday he ring me in me phone just to talk and fill the emptiness felt inside. And after a month, i heard from my uncle that he had another gurl there, It was very painful and i dont know what will i do just to forget everything. THen it come the time that i should make a decision between us, so i broke up him. And now If someone will court me i just igore to them and smart to choose a man whom who doesnt do to hurt me. I go on net just to look for my ryt one, and evytym some man says i love you and some sweet moments i feel like nothing and says boys are not safe to belive. Thats why I choose the ryt one just to not be hurt at the second tym around. Ill be thankful that, the kind of situatuin i been too was made a meduim for me to become strong and smart to choose to be my ryt one. Before i was not too strong and smart to choose a guy, as long as i like him then thats it, but now i learn and become smart. Will you agree with me guys?c'mmon and lets make a discusssion.