LOVE & ENJOY YOUR CHILDREN

@ddsully (1062)
United States
October 20, 2006 10:40am CST
the government recently calculated the cost of raising a child from birth to 18 and came up with $160,140 for a middle-income family. Talk about sticker shock! That doesn't even touch college tuition. But $160,140 isn't so bad if you break it down. It translates into: * $8,896.66 a year, * $741.38 a month, or * $171.08 a week. * That's a mere $24.24 a day! * Just over a dollar an hour. Still, you might think the best financial advice is don't have children if you want to be "rich." Actually, it is just the opposite. What do you get for your $160,140? * Naming rights. First, middle, and last! * Glimpses of God every day. * Giggles under the covers every night. * More love than your heart can hold. * Butterfly kisses and Velcro hugs. * Endless wonder over rocks, ants, clouds, and warm cookies. * A hand to hold, usually covered with jelly or chocolate. * A partner for blowing bubbles, flying kites, building sand castles, and skipping down the sidewalk in the pouring rain. * Someone to laugh yourself silly with, no matter what the boss said or how your stocks performed that day. For $160,140, you never have to grow up. You get to: * finger-paint, * carve pumpkins, * play hide-and-seek, * catch lightning bugs, and You have an excuse to: * keep reading the Adventures of Piglet and Pooh, * watching Saturday morning cartoons, * going to Disney movies, and * wishing on stars. * You get to frame rainbows, hearts, and flowers under refrigerator magnets and collect hand prints set in clay for Mother's Day, and cards with backward letters for Father's Day. For $160,140, there is no greater bang for your buck. You get to be a hero just for: * retrieving a Frisbee off the garage roof, * taking the training wheels off a bike, * removing a splinter, * filling a wading pool, * coaxing a wad of gum out of bangs, * and coaching a baseball team that never wins but always gets treated to ice cream regardless. You get a front row seat to history to witness the: * first step, * first word, * first bra, * first date, and * first time behind the wheel. You get to be immortal. You get another branch added to your family tree, and if you're lucky, a long list of limbs in your obituary called grandchildren and great grandchildren. You get an education in psychology, nursing, criminal justice, communications, and human sexuality that no college can match. In the eyes of a child, you rank right up there under God. You have all the power to heal a boo-boo, scare away the monsters under the bed, patch a broken heart, police a slumber party, ground them forever, and love them without limits. So . . . One day they will, like you, love without counting the cost. That is quite a deal for the price!!!!!!! Love & enjoy your children!!!!!!!
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9 responses
@kids91911 (4363)
• United States
20 Oct 06
WOW!!! I have 5 of them in my house!!!!
@kids91911 (4363)
• United States
20 Oct 06
No wonder I am always broke!!!
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
20 Oct 06
that's a good one, haha!
@ddsully (1062)
• United States
20 Oct 06
God bless you!!
• United States
20 Oct 06
Let me say, I loved your post!!!!!!! I like it very much. It seems a lot if you just look at the money but what you get in return, you cant buy it. The day my daughter roll over when doctors told us that she will not, I was so excited and cried and taking the pictures! My husband so excited. Oh and day my daughter called me "mama" When doctors told us she will not make any words, All the difficult work with her health problems and medical bills people just went away completely! Even though my daughter is in heaven and not with us anymore, I love her and I enjoyed her as my child!!
@ddsully (1062)
• United States
20 Oct 06
THANKS FOR THE REPLY..IM SORRY ABOUT YOUR LOSS, I AGREE WITH YOU, ITS NOT ABOUT THE MONEY, ITS THE LOVE...GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
@srhelmer (7047)
• Beaver Dam, Wisconsin
20 Oct 06
I admit, having a child was one of the most expensive decisions I ever made. But everytime she gives me a kiss and says "I love you daddy." It's worth every penny.
@ddsully (1062)
• United States
20 Oct 06
thank for your reply, your right, there is nothing in a world that can brighten up a day, like your child..have a great day!
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
20 Oct 06
i love your post, especially the education parents are forced to have (psych, nursing, crim, etc), hehe. i say, it's easier to be loving when the child is still a cute lil baby, with all those giggles and hugs, when they don't know how to talk back to you yet :). it gets pretty challenging as they grow up. they'll test your patience, strength, and faith. but all in all as you've said, thru these, parents get to see glimpses of God everyday. the most striking line i've heard about parenting is during a mass celebration where the priest said, "LOVE YOUR CHILDREN THE MOST WHEN THEY DESERVE IT THE LEAST". have a great day! :)
@ddsully (1062)
• United States
20 Oct 06
THANK YOU....."LOVE YOUR CHILDREN THE MOST WHEN THEY DESERVE IT THE LEAST" That is a great line...take care and God bless :)
@erevoz (399)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 06
yeah i think i will love them later
@ddsully (1062)
• United States
20 Oct 06
lol..have a great day!
@kittu007 (946)
• United States
24 Nov 06
Yes I Do....
@CRiTiC (188)
• Philippines
20 Oct 06
WOW!!! Me still a kid... so... :D
@hdyggs (685)
• United States
20 Oct 06
WHERE IS THIS MIDDLE CLASS FAMILY I KEEP HEARING ABOUT I'M JUST OUT OF THE POOR ZONE. WHICH POOR IS 20,000 AND UNDER I MAKE AFTER TAXES ABOUT 34,000 A YEAR AN JUST MAKEN ENDS MEET.
@easy123 (1484)
• India
20 Oct 06
yas true i am not say any one becouse u say more and more