if you have a child, will you love your child more or your husband/wife more?
By sallyxu126
@sallyxu126 (1184)
China
April 25, 2007 8:58pm CST
When you get married, sure you love your husband/wife mostly.
but after a few years, you got a child ,then you will love your child more or love your husband/wife more?
for me, I will love my child more.
What about you?
if you love your child more, will your husband/wife be unhappy about that?
if yes, how you deal with this condition?
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4 responses
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
26 Apr 07
MY love for my husband and my children is a different love.
But I have to say that I would love my children more than my husband.If I god forbid lost my husband he can be replaced,but if I lost a child I could never replace them.
Im sure my husband knows that I love my children first and if he has a problem with that he has never said.
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@shorva (923)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
I think I love them both equally. Although I must say that my love for my child is unconditional. No matter what my daughter might become, I'll still accept her and love her. But my husband, once he cheats on me, I'll kick him out of the house.
@smartmom (826)
• United States
26 Apr 07
I completely agree with Shorva's response. My love for my children are completely unconditional, and while I love my husband, and I want to spend the rest of my life with him, I know that so much can happen, and I have seen so many marriages and relationships change over time. As Shorva already mentioned, if my husband ever cheated on me, he would definitely get the boot.
