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myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10380)   ranked 318 out of 34,985 in life3 years ago

The day was hot, but that was not what bothered me. I was walking from the train station to a shopping mall, and I was bombarded by noises from both the traffic and construction sites along the way. The noise volume was so high that I could not even hear the music from my earphones.

10 more metres. 5 more. There. I stepped into the cool comfort of the mall. Feels very good. I took a few steps forward and suddenly, a girl dashed out from behind me, from my left side, to block my path. She wasn't exactly fast, but she covered the distance in many hurried steps. It conveyed a definite sense of urgency.

I stopped. I had to stop, or I would have knocked onto her. I looked at her and saw that she was middle-aged, wearing office attire and donning a smile. So I asked her, "Do I know you?" She stuck out both hands and tried to shove something at me. What a "surprise". It turned out to be a handful of drinking straws. She said, "For shoppers". Despite her smile, I responded too quickly and too automatically. "Not interested, thanks". And I continued my walk.

With hindsight, why would I want those straws anyway? They were not sealed in packets so who knows how dirty they might have got despite the clean look. And it just strikes me as weird. Why on earth is this shopping mall giving out straws to shoppers? Surely they can afford something more expensive and practical?:P

So if you were me, what would you do if you were "confronted" by this lady under such strange circumstance? FYI, on my way out, I was met by another of her colleagues who tried to shove me some straws too. Do you accept strange things from strangers in public? Or will you actively approach them if you see them giving out things? Do share your thoughts.;-)


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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. dawney101 (413)   ranked 469 out of 34,985 in life   3 years ago

for something like straws i would have probably accepted them then put them in the nearest bin, they are dirt cheap to buy anyway. i have tried various samples on cheese counters in the past but that was purely in order to taste before i buy but i don't go out of my way to approch people who are are giving away things for free. i suppose it depends what they are giving away in the first place.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10380)   ranked 318 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

Haha, you are awful! Take them then throw away.:P

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. liranlgo (2887)   ranked 5,362 out of 34,985 in life   3 years ago

Well i would have been more polite to her. Maybe she was a strange lady, but she meant well. But as to answer your question, NO. I would not take a straw or straws from her.
Maybe if she would have offered me chocolate i would have taken it. LOL. I have a chocolate addiction, and you might guess my parents did not have any luck with me on the part that says: 'Do not take candy from strangers'. They still do not seem to understand how nobody kidnapped me. LOl.
But straws. no. why should i? they are not sealed, they are not clean, every Israeli would think that maybe there was an explosive liquid in them. (what can we do, that is where we grow in..security problems and stuff), and i do not really like straws. Maybe my mother would take them, as you know from my response to another post you opened about straws, she loves them. Lol.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10380)   ranked 318 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

But liran, I did say "thanks"!*pout*

Ah ha! Now I know your weak points. Chocolates. HAHAHA:P


myLot reputation of 98/100. liranlgo (2887)   ranked 5,362 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

oooops. i knew i did a mistake here..;)


myLot reputation of 86/100. Modestah (7935)   ranked 1,149 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

it just occurred to me, was she hoping that you would accept them and then she would ask you for a donation? it would have given me the creeps for sure.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10380)   ranked 318 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

No more chocolates for you, liran. No more for tonight lol.:P

Might be - but I don't think so. She did say it was for shoppers of that particular mall. BUT you would never know. At least she kept that donation box out of sight lol.

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. charms88 (4698)   ranked 636 out of 34,985 in life   3 years ago

Oh baby, there must be something about you that the middle-aged woman likes to give you those straws. I have never encountered this kind of strange offering though. The usual things I saw are beauty products to try, credit cards and even insurance. Maybe, they have a contest there and who gave out the most numbers of straw will win a big amount of money, LOL!


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10380)   ranked 318 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

To be honest, this is the first time I have seen a mall giving out straws too. So ridiculous!:P

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. texasclassygal (3439)   ranked 531 out of 34,985 in life   3 years ago

I, like you would not have accepted the straws, you never know how sanity they are and the last thing I need is another infection in my system. Giving out straws is a strange give away for a mall, where they have a drinking convention there?


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10380)   ranked 318 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

I don't think so lol. It would have been in the news if so.:P

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5. myLot reputation of 98/100. tinamwhite (1973)   ranked 261 out of 34,985 in life   3 years ago

The idea of giving somebody "straws" as they enter a mall makes no sense to me.....No, I would have reacted in much the same manner as you did.

I frequently go our of my way to not get caught up in the "free" stuff that they give out at the malls or at the grocery stores....

What a strange tale, my friend.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10380)   ranked 318 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

That's exactly what happened this afternoon to me. I didn't even exaggerate a wee bit.:P

I suspect that the logo of the mall might have been printed on the straw. I don't know since I didn't take a closer look.

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6. myLot reputation of 99/100. recycledgoth (6150)   ranked 27 out of 34,985 in life   3 years ago

At the weekend I took some friends to a huge shopping mall in the centre of the city, the weather was hot and sunny and there were crowds of people out shopping and enjoying the good weather. There were also crowds of street traders about, and a lot of people giving out all kinds of "freebies" an "samples" of various things. Bearing in mind the weather was hot, I had to wonder the wisdom of people handing around trays of cold meats on sticks, small pieces of various assorted sausages and cheeses. Yuck! However, on the upside, there were also small glasses of assorted drinks, most of them in ice boxes, and these we happily accepted:-)


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10380)   ranked 318 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

What's wrong with cold meats on sticks on a hot day?


myLot reputation of 99/100. recycledgoth (6150)   ranked 27 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

The cold meats don't stay cold for very long, and the flies were having a feast on some of the plates:-(


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10380)   ranked 318 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

Oh yucky. Now I know why. Thanks.:P

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7. myLot reputation of 98/100. patgalca (5861)   ranked 113 out of 34,985 in life   3 years ago

Handing out straws? That's a new one on me. And unwrapped, no less. I wouldn't take them. I wouldn't even touch them. What is a shopper supposed to do with a straw without a drink? Ah, there's the rub. "While you're shopping, do buy yourself a refreshment at our food court." Better to give out wrapped packets of 2 saltine crackers. That will stimulate the urge to buy something to drink, and they are wrapped and sealed so you know they should be okay to eat. However, finding a hole in one of those wrappers would be hard to find.

If you're going to give out something, give out pens. Everybody loves pens. I know that doesn't stimulate shopping, but what else could you give out that would stimulate shopping without making people wary about the product you are giving out? Er, perhaps the fact that we're in the mall to begin with means that we will be shopping. Give us a reason to come back. Give us a pen with the mall's name and address on it. That should keep them coming back and won't risk anyone's safety... except for maybe the kid who has an urge to poke his eye out.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10380)   ranked 318 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

If I wanted to flirt with her, I might have asked if she is throwing in drinks as well haha.:P

They should just give out money or voucher lol.

 
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8. myLot reputation of 89/100. SpitFire179 (1412)   ranked 820 out of 34,985 in life   3 years ago

Personally i have to say when it comes to people i don't know, i'm quite un trusting, and even more inquisitive.
If someone came at me with straws, i would first ask why the heck they were giving out straws, and not something else, why they weren't packaged, and why they didn't just set up a stand or something for those who want it rather than jumping in others faces.

I wouldn't be able to help but think what could be in those straws, or if they were previously used for something else, i don't care if i could wash them or sterilize them, i just couldn't help but wonder or think of the possibilities, which would make me in the end say no, and tell them they should think before jumping out at someone as anything can happen now in this world, get them thinking a little and then be on my way.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10380)   ranked 318 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

Haha, with your questions, you will make that poor girl cry!:P


myLot reputation of 98/100. DarlingGirl (588)   ranked 6,323 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

I'm with SpitFire179!
What the heck?! Drinking Straws???
It's not like you can use them while you're shopping.
While working in the city there were often giveaways at the entrance to Penn Station. Those kids had a t-shirt displaying what they were marketing, and it was usually gum. Now that, I took. The gum was ealed and shrink-wrapped, as they would be sold in the supermarket- reasonably safe. I was able to identify who and why they were giving them out too - on the gum's website.
It was a new flavor of a fairly well known brand.

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9. myLot reputation of 91/100. gifana (2250)   ranked 957 out of 34,985 in life   3 years ago

This is certainly something that one would not encounter every day. Even using one's widest imagination a logical reason for the action would be extremely difficult to come by. Perhaps it was merely a promotional idea by someone and that if one accepted a straw he would win a prize of some sort. Were this on my mind at the time of the offer I might accept it....as long as the person offering it was at least clean appearing....whether I used the straw or threw it away at a later moment is immaterial.


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myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10380)   ranked 318 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

Certainly. First time I was given straws at the entrance of a shopping mall.:P

It must be some weird brainchild of some advertising teams..


KillerzMind1 (8)   ranked 23,759 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

No, not really. I just wouldn't want to. Reason being is that if I wanted to buy straws, I would just go into the mall myself and buy them. You don't know if she's a worker or not, or if there's something bad in those straws. (Note that I'm not the type to buy something from someone who walks up to me.)


myLot reputation of 91/100. gifana (2250)   ranked 957 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

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myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10380)   ranked 318 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

Hohoho, now I know your little secret! You love spanking!:P

But yes, you are very free to do what you want on my thread. Please treat this thread as yours. If you prefer, you may comment on all the responses too. Instead of feeling angry and upset, I would be more pleased than you can imagine.:PP

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10. myLot reputation of 95/100. Kimberlyn45 (163)   ranked 4,804 out of 34,985 in life   3 years ago

No i wouldn't accept a straw from a stranger only because you don't know where their hands have been. It might sound alittle harsh but i am safe about germs and such . so my answer is NO.......


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10380)   ranked 318 out of 34,985 in life  3 years ago

Nothing wrong with bearing cleanliness in mind.;-)

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