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myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 335 out of 38,039 in life3 years ago

The day was hot, but that was not what bothered me. I was walking from the train station to a shopping mall, and I was bombarded by noises from both the traffic and construction sites along the way. The noise volume was so high that I could not even hear the music from my earphones.

10 more metres. 5 more. There. I stepped into the cool comfort of the mall. Feels very good. I took a few steps forward and suddenly, a girl dashed out from behind me, from my left side, to block my path. She wasn't exactly fast, but she covered the distance in many hurried steps. It conveyed a definite sense of urgency.

I stopped. I had to stop, or I would have knocked onto her. I looked at her and saw that she was middle-aged, wearing office attire and donning a smile. So I asked her, "Do I know you?" She stuck out both hands and tried to shove something at me. What a "surprise". It turned out to be a handful of drinking straws. She said, "For shoppers". Despite her smile, I responded too quickly and too automatically. "Not interested, thanks". And I continued my walk.

With hindsight, why would I want those straws anyway? They were not sealed in packets so who knows how dirty they might have got despite the clean look. And it just strikes me as weird. Why on earth is this shopping mall giving out straws to shoppers? Surely they can afford something more expensive and practical?:P

So if you were me, what would you do if you were "confronted" by this lady under such strange circumstance? FYI, on my way out, I was met by another of her colleagues who tried to shove me some straws too. Do you accept strange things from strangers in public? Or will you actively approach them if you see them giving out things? Do share your thoughts.;-)


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anonymili (2895) response was accepted on 5/23/2007.
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91. myLot reputation of 97/100. SKLC_PT (859)   ranked 79 out of 38,039 in life   3 years ago

I think I would have been so puzzled with it I would have asked why they are giving away these straws in the first place, then since they are unwrapped I'd most probably say it's not very hygienic so I don't want them, you're always taught not to accept unwrapped things that might go in your mouth. Then I'd leave. Or maybe I'd take one as proof to tell my friends and to keep next to my diary as a funny story for future reference d:


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 335 out of 38,039 in life  3 years ago

They probably are not expecting us to use it - but to keep as toys or something.

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92. myLot reputation of 78/100. SilentRose19 (1330)   ranked 1,814 out of 38,039 in life   3 years ago

I try to avoid peope giving things out, simply because I don't like saying no. I really think that they have a hard job sitting out there offering things, and i don't like making them feel bad. I really don't care to tell you the truth, but when someone approaches me it tends to affect me. If this situation had happened to me depending on my mood i'd have muttered no thank you, and walked off. I can't stand being chased by mall patrons, its ridiculous. If you want some then you'll walk over, I understand if you like two or three feet from them but chasing you 10 to 15 feet for straws. Come on? Thats just someone who is desperate, and its just annoying.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 335 out of 38,039 in life  3 years ago

I can put myself into their shoes. It's not so fun giving things out to people who keep rejecting you.

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93. myLot reputation of 90/100. flowerchilde (6809)   ranked 508 out of 38,039 in life   3 years ago

..that is, strange.. No I wouldn't take them, as that would just entail my having to go to the next trash can to throw them out.. (or maybe that's just what I'd do, lamblike courtesy having sprung to the fore). I wonder what the deal was? Pretty weird. I would try to avoid them if I saw them coming.. I recieve flyers, things like that from peole and smile and say thank you, even if their cause isn't mine.. or their product doesn't interest me.. But there's only so much my paranoia will allow.. Straws? And unpackaged? Surely there's logic somewhere.. but what it might be, nothing comes to mind.. So yes, it would likely make me suspicious.. of something..


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 335 out of 38,039 in life  3 years ago

Sometimes, it might actually be a good idea - to take them and dump them in the next trashcan you see. This is actually helping that poor guy to finish giving out those things quicker.

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