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myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 335 out of 38,061 in life3 years ago

The day was hot, but that was not what bothered me. I was walking from the train station to a shopping mall, and I was bombarded by noises from both the traffic and construction sites along the way. The noise volume was so high that I could not even hear the music from my earphones.

10 more metres. 5 more. There. I stepped into the cool comfort of the mall. Feels very good. I took a few steps forward and suddenly, a girl dashed out from behind me, from my left side, to block my path. She wasn't exactly fast, but she covered the distance in many hurried steps. It conveyed a definite sense of urgency.

I stopped. I had to stop, or I would have knocked onto her. I looked at her and saw that she was middle-aged, wearing office attire and donning a smile. So I asked her, "Do I know you?" She stuck out both hands and tried to shove something at me. What a "surprise". It turned out to be a handful of drinking straws. She said, "For shoppers". Despite her smile, I responded too quickly and too automatically. "Not interested, thanks". And I continued my walk.

With hindsight, why would I want those straws anyway? They were not sealed in packets so who knows how dirty they might have got despite the clean look. And it just strikes me as weird. Why on earth is this shopping mall giving out straws to shoppers? Surely they can afford something more expensive and practical?:P

So if you were me, what would you do if you were "confronted" by this lady under such strange circumstance? FYI, on my way out, I was met by another of her colleagues who tried to shove me some straws too. Do you accept strange things from strangers in public? Or will you actively approach them if you see them giving out things? Do share your thoughts.;-)


Will you accept a straw from strangers?
 
 
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11. myLot reputation of 93/100. charlene2350 (4850)   ranked 581 out of 38,061 in life   3 years ago

That sure does sound strange to me. In America they don't give you anything, but the right to buy something from them. No, just for general purposes of cleanliness, I would not accept things that are not wrapped. I can afford straws, I put them on my shopping list every time I run low. If I haven't asked for it, don't push it on me, that is what I feel. Whatever someone is peddling, I don't want it.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 335 out of 38,061 in life  3 years ago

Is it that bad in the States? I would have thought something totally different!

 
12. myLot reputation of 59/100. gewcew23 (4073)   ranked 1,446 out of 38,061 in life   3 years ago

I would have done the same thing I would politely said no thank you and kept on going. I do find it strange they were giving away straws. Sounds kinda fishy to me but I don't know.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 335 out of 38,061 in life  3 years ago

Maybe I will read it in the papers tomorrow to find it is some failed advertising campaign.:P

 
13. myLot reputation of 96/100. princeworthy (1405)   ranked 132 out of 38,061 in life   3 years ago

That is really odd! I would have done the same thing that you did. I wouldnt' have any need for straws at all even if the were in wrappers. I just find this thing so weird. I think I would've actually been shocked enough to maybe ask them why.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 335 out of 38,061 in life  3 years ago

Haha. If I was feeling friendly, I would have chatted with her. But hey, I am quite anti-social.*wink*

 
14. myLot reputation of 99/100. sick4muzick (479)   ranked 439 out of 38,061 in life   3 years ago

Hi lordwarwizard. Im a suspicious person and anything out of the blue that suddenly offers itself is highly suspect. But straws? I might be curious enough to accept them. See if maybe it's part of a "collect straws for cash" promo the mall is sponsoring. Or who knows a reality tv show of "people who accept anything in public".

I tend to stay away from people who show the slightest interest in me in public. So no, I don't accept anything at all. Unless of course, I am in the mall and see that everyone is subject to such approaches and they're giving out something interesting like cash or cds;) Thanks and good day!


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 335 out of 38,061 in life  3 years ago

Curious person, eh?:P


myLot reputation of 99/100. sick4muzick (479)   ranked 439 out of 38,061 in life  3 years ago

hmmmm, I don't know what you're thinking but I haven't been killed ... yet:)

 
15. myLot reputation of 97/100. Marie2473 (5328)   ranked 240 out of 38,061 in life   3 years ago

This is weird. I have never heard of anyone handing out straws. Drinks, icecream and stuff like that _ sure - but unsealed straws.. weird...
I would not have taken it - oh maybe I would have and then throw them away...


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 335 out of 38,061 in life  3 years ago

I found it so weird myself that I just have to share it. Maybe I should have snapped a photo while she wasn't looking and posted it. Nah..:P

 
16. myLot reputation of 98/100. misheleen73 (3135)   ranked 28 out of 38,061 in life   3 years ago

Leave it to Wizzy to be accosted by a strange straw seductress!! Maybe she was in awe of your greatness and was standing by one of those straw holders, grabbed a few, and used that as an excuse to get closer and bask in your glory!! Seriously though, I probably would have said thanks, took the straws then dumped them later. That's what I usually do with the pushy "sample" people at stores. I actually had a woman follow me one asking "why" I did not want to take a free sample of dishwasher soap. I said, because lady, I don't HAVE a dishwasher. At the time, I didn't and thought it a waste to take it. Since then, I just accept said unwanted items and trash them later, or if they are decent things I may not personally want, I'll give them to someone that does want it.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 335 out of 38,061 in life  3 years ago

Strange straw seductress! What nice alliteration!

Just have to give you a medal.:P

 

myLot reputation of 98/100. misheleen73 (3135)   ranked 28 out of 38,061 in life  3 years ago

thanks, the metal almost makes my day better...almost:(


myLot reputation of 98/100. misheleen73 (3135)   ranked 28 out of 38,061 in life  3 years ago

sorry it should read "medal" my eyes are still blurry


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 335 out of 38,061 in life  3 years ago

You need to rest your eyes a bit.:P

 
17. PirateLeChuck (9)   ranked 13,876 out of 38,061 in life   3 years ago

I would take a straw. I would ask for more even. Just to mess with her. I'd act all excited about it too. I mean, you know that lady has to be thinking, why the hell are my employers paying me to hand out straws. Because that is pretty weird.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 335 out of 38,061 in life  3 years ago

HAHAHA. What a nasty pirate you are!:P


myLot reputation of 97/100. GardenGerty (20235)   ranked 63 out of 38,061 in life  3 years ago

You must be my nephew, hiding here in disguise. He also told the Army recruiter that called to recruit my daughter Sam that he did not want to join the army, his real goal was to rule the world. The Army recruiter told him that was okay, they could help.Welcome to myLot.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 335 out of 38,061 in life  3 years ago

Pirate, did you get into the wrong garden by mistake? Or are all those flowers yours?

 
18. myLot reputation of 99/100. rx4life (1049)   ranked 929 out of 38,061 in life   3 years ago

I will accept nothing but money from strangers!!!LOL...In all seriousness I also would have declined the straws...unpackaged and handled by who knows who? I wonder what the intent is? Anyway, I try to avoid the people that want to give me literature or samples of juice or spray me with cologne or get me to sign up for a "free" condo in Hawaii if I'll just fill out 3 pages of paperwork and let someone come to my house and present their "package" deals...urghhhh...When I go to the mall or out in public I will take care of myself..I will go and get anything I might need to enhance or complete my shopping experience...I don't need to be carrying around 100 different items that some company has decided to giveaway for the day..only to put it in the next trash can I find...If I were to see someone handing out something that I could actually use and want..I would then politely approach them and see if I could acquire the item...they need not come to me!!!..and what are they doing approaching the great LordWarWizard without an appointment...shameless...:)


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 335 out of 38,061 in life  3 years ago

Really? HAHAHA:P

Oh yea! Now that you mentioned it, they are so rude. Didn't even make an appointment with me. You are so hilarious. Just have to give you a medal too.:PP

 
 
19. myLot reputation of 94/100. hezoid (1788)   ranked 491 out of 38,061 in life   3 years ago

Seems very strange and random to me. If a shopping mall wer eto hand out straws for whatever reason (that in itself seems odd unless they were also haning out dsrinks!) then wouldn't they just have a stand instead of a strange woman running about hhaning them out to people?


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 335 out of 38,061 in life  3 years ago

Haha. She's probably one of the mall staff. Someone behind the scene I guess - since I did not notice any name tag on her.

 
20. bbkks18 (58)   ranked 5,033 out of 38,061 in life   3 years ago

servers in the restaurants are considered strangers but i will accept the straw they'll gave me cuz i need it for drinking my tea an besides i am asking for it...but if you say that i am goin to accept a straw given to a person who i do not know of, well thats a very different story...of course not! i will never accpet it...with no reasons what so ever that a person will just come up to me and hand me a drinking straw?
on ur story sounds kinda weird to me hehe, i agree on what you did. you are correct. who knows if that straw is clean? and it wasn't sealed too? hehe...


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 335 out of 38,061 in life  3 years ago

Sure thing. If it is in the restaurant, then of course I will accept. Mind you - the sealed version only lol.:P

 
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