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The day was hot, but that was not what bothered me. I was walking from the train station to a shopping mall, and I was bombarded by noises from both the traffic and construction sites along the way. The noise volume was so high that I could not even hear the music from my earphones.
10 more metres. 5 more. There. I stepped into the cool comfort of the mall. Feels very good. I took a few steps forward and suddenly, a girl dashed out from behind me, from my left side, to block my path. She wasn't exactly fast, but she covered the distance in many hurried steps. It conveyed a definite sense of urgency.
I stopped. I had to stop, or I would have knocked onto her. I looked at her and saw that she was middle-aged, wearing office attire and donning a smile. So I asked her, "Do I know you?" She stuck out both hands and tried to shove something at me. What a "surprise". It turned out to be a handful of drinking straws. She said, "For shoppers". Despite her smile, I responded too quickly and too automatically. "Not interested, thanks". And I continued my walk.
With hindsight, why would I want those straws anyway? They were not sealed in packets so who knows how dirty they might have got despite the clean look. And it just strikes me as weird. Why on earth is this shopping mall giving out straws to shoppers? Surely they can afford something more expensive and practical?:P
So if you were me, what would you do if you were "confronted" by this lady under such strange circumstance? FYI, on my way out, I was met by another of her colleagues who tried to shove me some straws too. Do you accept strange things from strangers in public? Or will you actively approach them if you see them giving out things? Do share your thoughts.;-)
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21. Noot54 (4433) | 3 years ago | Your writing is excellent, lordwarwizard, and describes a strange situation perfectly. Who can account for all the actions of others, theye are in their own little world bubble. We all tend to shrink away from the unknown and it is a natural reaction to deny a 'gift' from a stranger. Wonder what she's doing now?
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | Lol, playing with foam in her own bubble?:P
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22. mari61960 (3133) | 3 years ago | Well I don't think I would have taken the straws from her. I would have asked why they were giving them away. Maybe there was some kind of contest going on and you had to have the right straw??..lol Sounds kind of bizarre to me, there must have been some reason...
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timou87 (1523) | 3 years ago | you could be right you know.nowdays there are so many prompotions and publicity gimmicks to launch new products and events, and it would be no surprise if giveing out of straws could be linked to one of them!
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | Yea. I might have struck a conversation with her if I was feeling chatty. But I wasn't.:P
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23. weemam (6719) | 3 years ago | To be honest, I would have taken them and said thank you and smiled, and when I was out of her sight I would have put them in the nearest bin, we have elections coming soon in Scotland and every time we go out someone is handing us some kind of pamphlet or other for some other party, so!! I take them and say thank you and smile and guess what ( you got it ) I wait till I am out of site and bin them, I just don't like to hurt peoples feelings, But I would NEVER have used the straws, not under any circumstances xx
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | Oh if they were pamphlets, I would have taken them and thrown them away (unless they are interesting and I somehow had a reason to keep them). I used to reject them too - but after I realised that those people handling out the pamphlets couldn't call it a day till they finish giving them out, I decided to do them a favor. In fact, I sometimes walked closer for them so that they can pass them to me - so in a way, I am actively helping them. I feel irked though when sometimes, when I do that, they didn't give the pamphlets to me! I don't want to be like a beggar, you know? I just want to give them the chance of giving it to me.:P
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weemam (6719) | 3 years ago | I knew you were a sweetie all along xxx
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | Wouldn't hurt to remind you lol.:P
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weemam (6719) | 3 years ago | The thing is everyone can see it now lol Hugs xxxxxx
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24. kathy77 (6867) | 3 years ago | Yes it does make you feel refreshed when you step inside a mall with the air conditioning especially as it is extremely hot outside some days. I would not of accepted those straws either as like you say they were not covered with anything so you would be liable of picking up germs. When our people are trying to give away such items they do not hand them out in this manner. So it all depends on what they are promoting and giving away so accept it or not.
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | Yup. Aircon is really a Godsend on a hot day.:P
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25. maddysmommy (10990) | 3 years ago | How weird! I wonder why they were handing out straws? now if it was chocolates or free samples of body lotions, lipsticks (with the wrappings) then I would consider it, but not straws! LOL this is too funny!
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | But do you feel taking free samples makes one look "cheap"?
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maddysmommy (10990) | 3 years ago | For me? not at all! For others, maybe!
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26. Foxxee (2625) | 3 years ago | I would of said something like "WHy would I want those dirty straws?"
But that is me. I would also let them know that they probably fulled with germs because they are not wrapped like a straw should be.
:)
I wouldn't take it.
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | Oh Foxxee, you are so nasty haha!:P
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27. whiteheather39 (13276) | 3 years ago | That was really a very strange experience. I have been racking my pitiful brain to think of any business sales ploy that could induce giving anyone unhygienically unsealed drinking straws and I come up with zero. Unless you are giving us a trick discussion and you will let us know there is a good reason/answer??
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | No, my friend. That was really what happened. Complete truth. No exaggeration.
I don't want why they are giving straws too. Not a trick discussion.:P
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28. Modestah (7932) | 3 years ago | what a very odd promotional! I wonder if the mall authorities were aware of their being there accosting the shoppers in such a manner. NO! I would neither accept the straws nor would I hold them... who knows what matter of contaminant is on them! unwrapped? gracious, they could be laced with LSD or something. no thank you, get out of my face lady who likes to shove straws at people.
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | I suspect they were the mall staff.
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29. vanities (8842) | 3 years ago | That is pretty strange indeed!,did you ask what is it for? im too is confused about it, it never happened here in our country..but if ever then of course i wont accept it..
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | I didn't ask. I just want to continue with what I went to the mall for.:P
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30. linda345 (1862) | 3 years ago | I would have said thanks but no thanks. Who knows who handled those straws before they would have been given to you. Yuck. I have seen lots of things given away for free before but never straws. Well that is the straw that broke the camels back. lol.
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | I agree - straws are really "new".:P
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