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The day was hot, but that was not what bothered me. I was walking from the train station to a shopping mall, and I was bombarded by noises from both the traffic and construction sites along the way. The noise volume was so high that I could not even hear the music from my earphones.
10 more metres. 5 more. There. I stepped into the cool comfort of the mall. Feels very good. I took a few steps forward and suddenly, a girl dashed out from behind me, from my left side, to block my path. She wasn't exactly fast, but she covered the distance in many hurried steps. It conveyed a definite sense of urgency.
I stopped. I had to stop, or I would have knocked onto her. I looked at her and saw that she was middle-aged, wearing office attire and donning a smile. So I asked her, "Do I know you?" She stuck out both hands and tried to shove something at me. What a "surprise". It turned out to be a handful of drinking straws. She said, "For shoppers". Despite her smile, I responded too quickly and too automatically. "Not interested, thanks". And I continued my walk.
With hindsight, why would I want those straws anyway? They were not sealed in packets so who knows how dirty they might have got despite the clean look. And it just strikes me as weird. Why on earth is this shopping mall giving out straws to shoppers? Surely they can afford something more expensive and practical?:P
So if you were me, what would you do if you were "confronted" by this lady under such strange circumstance? FYI, on my way out, I was met by another of her colleagues who tried to shove me some straws too. Do you accept strange things from strangers in public? Or will you actively approach them if you see them giving out things? Do share your thoughts.;-)
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51. wonderful1 (1945) | 3 years ago | I often met such things in supermarkets. Now they often let the customers taste some food, such as milk,coffee and biscuits. Sometimes i will have a taste when he opens a new package.If i like it,I will buy a package or more.Usually,I just glance it. Once, I taste a kind of milk, and I dont buy it because it is too sweet.Then the saleswoman looked very unhappy and asked why I didnt buy one after having a taste.I said it was too sweet for me.She suggested I could buy a package for my friend or my parents. I feel uncomfortable, because she standed in front of me.I thought if i didnt buy her product, I cant pass beside her."Let me go."I said angrily. Since then,I never taste products .
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | That would be wrong. There's no rule saying you have to buy the food just because you tried it.
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52. love_all (275) | 3 years ago | thanks for such a great info. I am not very sure but i dont think so that i will ever accept any thing from a stranger.
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| 53. chingwes (93) | 3 years ago | Its too unsanitized to use a straw from a stranger you don't know where he/she get it in the first place...hehehe
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | Well, she didn't exactly offered it with a drink.:P
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54. little_angel (1352) | 3 years ago | Hi lordwarwizard If i were you, i will pick one straw, just pick it but not use it, just to respect her, even she is not to polite to you. I know her feeling, try to offer you something. But maybe that's your reflection respond to reject her, you've got a little shock when she block your step.
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | I know, I know, I should have taken it...:P
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55. gabs8513 (19767) | 3 years ago | Well I would have done the same as you no doubt about it as they where not sealed or anything I don't even taste in Shops or anything it is safe to anymore in this world Ok they might be sincere but I am sorry I am not very trusting lol
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56. kelly60 (3270) | 3 years ago | If someone approached me and tried to give me a straw, I would have to ask them why they wanted to give me one. I would assume that they were doing it for a reason. Maybe they had a contest to see who could give the most away, maybe there was a special prize for the person who ended up with a certain straw, who knows. I would as though instead of just walking away. If they had a good explanation, I might even accept the straw even though I would not use it, after all, You KNOW from a previous discussion that I have to have my straw.
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | Haha, maybe it's some gotcha show.:P
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kelly60 (3270) | 3 years ago | It could be, but I would have to ask them why they were giving the straws away before deciding whether or not to take it, then I might take it anyway. Who knows, they might have a good enough reason to convince me.
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | But if I suspect it is really some gotcha show, I wouldn't want to fall into their trap by starting to talk to them. I would want to walk away quick and disappear from the sight of those cameras!:P
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57. brendalee (5064) | 3 years ago | That has got to be one of the weirdest things I have ever heard of being handed out at a shopping mall. Maybe they had a spitball competition going on.lol. I wouldn't have accepted it either but I may have asked why they were doing it just because I am nosey.
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58. nilzerous1 (1743) | 3 years ago | For me, it is absolutely no no. I would not like to accept anything from a stranger whether it is straw, or a bottle of Coke, or some biscuits, even when if these come for free. First of all, we are passing through a age in which you never know what is the actual intention of a person offering you something for free. It might be just a promotional campaign on the part of the Mall owner, still, it is hard to believe so quickly. Secondly, if I need something, I would like to buy that instead of accepting freebies and dumping my shopping bag with unnecessary items. Anyway, I think too Mall owners must have offered something better than bunch of straws for the shoppers. It is so funny and useless.
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | Yea, I think they are weird too.:P
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nilzerous1 (1743) | 3 years ago | Yes, I quite agree with you.
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59. martianwoman (3889) | 3 years ago | In all supermarket are a lot of young peoples who work for some extra money for college and make this job...is only a job, and be sure that they give you something for publicity, can t make any harm, you can take and after you can don t use...in this way you can help she. Is only a job...about if is clean or not...think only when you tuch something in a supermarket or in a common place. Are a lot of germs everywhere. Any way is everybody choice, but i take but i don t eat or use, i want only help somebody who try to make some money...and i am sure i will not die from this.
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | I know, I know.. I should have taken those straws...:/
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60. loved1 (4852) | 3 years ago | That is the weirdest thing ever. Why would you need a straw? Why couldn't a shopper get a straw (for free) from the place where they go to buy a drink? Were they special straws with designs on them? I have never heard of such a thing. I would have done the exact same thing you did. I would have said "No, thank you." and moved away from her. That would have freaked me out a bit. haha
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lordwarwizard (10401) | 3 years ago | Bull's eye. All drinks come with straws!:P
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