does THE ONE exists?

There may not be one but there are definitely people that you would be happy with. It's really hard to tell who will be the best person for you. Sometimes we can really feel like someone is the "One." But they break our hearts and we can find someone who fits us much better. I think that when you find someone that you can live with and who you aren't constantly trying to change, you need to hold on and not let that one go. You also need to be on the same track and have similar goals. Such as if you want to stay in the same place and have 3 kids but he wants to move to Tokyo and raise a football team worth of kids, it likely won't work out. In my heart I still believe that there is this perfect person who will complete me, but in my head, I know I've got a good thing and probably the closest I'll ever get to the one in this lifetime.

this has happened ever so quickly for you i feel sorry that you are in such a sad situation. it sounds to me that maybe you were both under too much pressure trying to sort your wedding and house plans out. it often leads to petty arguments that escalate in to huge full blown shouting matches. maybe you and your boyfriend weren't ready to settle down and make these commitments. it's best that all this came out before any wedding or house buying or things could have alot more complicated. i don't know really believe in the term the "one" especially in your case when the person you thought was the "one" as quick as a flash isn't anymore.

yep, the ONE does exist. But love does not stop after finding the right ONE. To make it last, u gotta learn to the love the person you found.:D