Is your relationship suffering because you let yourself go?

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Do you have a beautiful body? What exactly do you consider that to be? Is it your lovely complexion or your pretty smile or maybe even your almond shaped eyes? But honestly we have to accept the fact that even if the majority of body parts are flawless that still does not mean you have a beautiful body. Is it that you have the perfect 36-24-36 or maybe the guys with their 26 inch pythons? Well I honestly believe that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. There is someone out there for everyone. Some of us can do better. Some of us can exercise a little more or push away from the table a little more often. Or are you truly in love and desire every inch of them. Well you have to bring it to get it. Have you tried firming up together or dieting together or do you just sit around and let resentment build up? Have you tried cooking healthier meals or laying off the junk and fast food? Discontent breeds infidelity and if you are not honest and supportive of your mate then your relationship is in jeopardy. Many of us become content with having a person in our lives and accepting the mistreatment. The late night phone calls and hangups and the overnight hours our mates keep and it's all because we don't want to rock the boat. But you have to realize that you are being put in jeopardy every time your mate steps out on you they are bringing home the germs of all the people they slept with and threatening the livelihood of your entire family. If you come down with some disease who will take care of your parents and children? I know it seems like a lot but this is what comes from an unhappy relationship. We owe it to ourselves and to our mates to stay as close as possible to the person we were when we got in that relationship or we play a part in it's destruction. If your partner says your change does not bother them but you are no longer the apple of their eye if they no longer treat you like they used to then you'd better reevaluate. What would you like to change about yourself and why? Is your stomach so big that you can no longer tie your own shoelaces? Maybe you've gained so much weight that you are out of breath just walking up the stairs. Then you owe it to yourself and your family to shape up. Tomorrow always sounds good but don't wait do it right now. Do you think you have what it takes to get yourself on track? If not what do you think you need?