Subject: FW: expectation of love
By Akeela
@Akeela (2078)
Trinidad And Tobago
May 4, 2007 8:31am CST
I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me. Once when we were
sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand
with some water and held it before me, and said this: "You see this water
carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love. " This was how I saw it: As long as you keep your hand caringly open and
allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt
to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through
the first cracks it finds.
This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love ... They
try to posses it, they demand, they expect ... And just like the water
spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you. For love is meant
to be free,
You can not change its nature.
If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings.
Give and don't expect.
Advise, but don't order.
Ask, but never demand.
It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to
truly practice.
It is the secret to true love.To truly practice it, you must sincerely
feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an unconditional
caring."Passing thought ... Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take;
but by the moments that take our breath away.
1 response
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
4 May 07
wow that was really great... I just hope that we would learn it that easy... When we love someone we cant help but try to possess it maybe because of fear to loose it... we demand and expect maybe because we tend to have our ideal man/relationship... but you're right we should learn to enjoy whatever joy it brings but not ask too much of it...



