The Greatest Love Stories are covered in Blood

@breepeace (3014)
Canada
May 5, 2007 11:36am CST
Want an easy way to save 3+ months' salary? Don’t buy a diamond engagement ring. If your fiancée, friends and family scream hellfire, calmly explain: It's just marketing. The whole "A Diamond is Forever" and the idea of a diamond engagement ring is not an ancient tradition to be revered and followed. It is Sprite’s "Obey Your Thirst." It is Nike’s "Just Do It." It is Gary Dahl’s "Pet Rock." Not only did De Beers understand it had to control supply (buying up and closing down any diamond mine discovered), they had to control demand. They had to make it sentimental. And Americans were the perfect suckers. They targeted the US specifically for our marketability. This campaign is less than 70 years old yet has become so ingrained in our culture that the diamond engagement ring has become the ultimate symbol of how much the relationship, the girl, and love itself is worth. Diamonds aren't rare. Fine, using marketing tactics can't be blamed since that's part of the game of capitalism. But another part of the game is competition. It's all well and good if marketers can convince consumers to buy them instead of the competition based on a nice slogan, but the competition should be there to protect the consumer. All gems are valued based on their rarity (as are most things in life). But diamonds are abundant. De Beers has a huge vault where they keep most of the world's supply of diamonds. If it ever got released into the market, the way it would be if they weren’t a monopoly, diamonds would be worth nothing. It's literally a pretty rock. Diamonds have no resale value. The reason a "diamond is forever" is because you're basically stuck with it. You'll never be able to resell it except to a pawn shop. Even a jeweler (the few who would be willing to buy it) would offer a fraction of what you paid. Synthetic diamonds will flood the market. Synthetic or "cultured" diamonds are already being made and within the next few years, will be efficiently made for the mass market. These are real diamonds. They are made in a machine that replicates the environmental forces that make diamonds. The only difference is that they're better. They have less flaws. And they cost a fraction of the going rate. Want a 2-carat pink diamond? That'll be a few thousand dollars. Moissanite looks just like a diamond. Jewelers had to upgrade their equipment to detect Moissanite from diamonds when it came into the market. It's undetectable with the naked eye. And it's actually more brilliant. A 1-carat ring is under $1000. Who is the ring for, anyway? Seriously. As The Dilettante so poignantly put it, "For women, comparing jewelry is our phallic posturing contest: look at how big MY dic….er, I mean, diamond is." It's fun to show off for about 30 seconds. After that there is little to show for the debt incurred for the shiny piece of rock. That money could have gone into furniture, an amazing trip (or many nice ones), your future kids' college funds!! Are these reasons still not enough? Watch Blood Diamond. It is high time Hollywood dared to broach the subject of diamonds, especially when they had a hand in marketing it to the public in the first place. Blood Diamond, is an explicit example of the blood and war that has spanned the entire history of the De Beers’ diamond cartel. The story of Sierra Leone isn't an isolated event, nor is the conflict over just because the movie says there’s peace in Sierra Leone now. What are conflict/blood diamonds? Conflict/blood diamonds are used by rebel groups to fuel conflict and civil wars, and by terrorist groups to finance their activities. The Kimberley Process is just PR. It’s an agreement that is supposed to prevent conflict diamonds from getting into the market but ended up being more of a PR stunt since it's based on a system of self-policing. The UN reported in October 2006 that due to poor enforcement of the Kimberley Process, $23 million of conflict diamonds from Cote d'lvoire alone entered the legitimate market. Sure De Beers won't buy diamonds coming out of Cote d'lvoire, but they’ll turn a blind eye to the smuggling of diamonds from there through Ghana and Mali where they are certified as being conflict-free. Percentage in the market. During the height of the diamond conflict in the 1990s, the diamond industry reported that no more than 4% of the diamonds in the market were conflict diamonds, when in reality it has been shown to be closer to 15% . Asking for conflict-free certificates is not enough. In April 2006 after a scathing report by Partnership Africa Canada about activities in Brazil, an internal review showed that 49 of 147 Kimberley Process certificates were fraudulent. Besides these fraudulent certificates, real certificates could still be issued if conflict diamonds were smuggled and mixed with legally traded ones before being certified. Children in India are cutting and polishing the diamonds. Children in India can become "bonded" – forced to work to pay off the debts of their family. These children end up working in the diamond factories. Children in conflict zones are being used as soldiers. The images in Blood Diamond with child soldiers are very real. They are drugged and brainwashed to handle the manslaughter they are forced to do. Jennifer Connelly says in the movie Blood Diamond, "People back home would not buy a diamond if they knew it cost someone their hand." Now you know.
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@judyt00 (3496)
• Canada
5 May 07
Diamonds are being dug up in Canada, with not one drop of blood being spilled, except by careless drill operators and they are actually higher quality than most African and South American diamonds being found today. Sounds to me like you just didn't get one and are using this as a rant against it
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@breepeace (3014)
• Canada
5 May 07
Excuse me? This post wasn't intended to get a catty remark. But from the sounds of your post, it sounds like you didn't get a Polar Bear diamond and are feeling a little defensive. I'm from Canada, my dad worked at Diavik, one of the largest diamond mines in the Northwest Territories for years and has seen first hand that although there may not be a civil war yet, one is bound to start if only just because the local native workers aren't getting the fairest of shakes in employment benefits. This is intended to be some food for thought for diamond crazy women all around the world. And I'm not engaged.
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@judyt00 (3496)
• Canada
5 May 07
Actually, I have a Polar Ice diamond in my ring. That's how I know about them. And its not an engagement ring, I bought it myself. Its one of a kind, and made specifically to my pattern.14 karat yellow and white gold with a 1/4 karat polar ice diamond inlaid so it doesn't stick up and snag things.
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• Canada
5 May 07
Well at least its conflict free... And I dont believe bree was being catty at all... I have a similar post about the movie that I started and I love that she post all that info for us
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@TheCatLady (4691)
• Israel
16 Oct 08
I have a manufactured diamond. It's much cheaper than a real one. The setting is a custom art piece made by my dad, so I'd freek if that was lost , but if I lost the stone I wouldn't be all that upset. My diamond is indistinguishable from a mined diamond other than the fact that it's flawless where all mined diamonds have some flaw however small.
@breepeace (3014)
• Canada
22 Dec 08
Do they sell them at basic jewelry stores?
• Israel
22 Dec 08
I have no idea. You'd have to ask.
• Canada
5 May 07
honestly... I don't want a diamond... even before watching the movie I never saw what the big deal is... oooo its a clear rock... so I decided then that if I were to have one it would be chips... But after watching Blood Diamond and reading the info on wikipedia... I decided I absolutely do not want any diamonds ever.... there are plenty of stones that to me are prettier... So I say go Gems!
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@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
13 Jan 09
A wonderful write up and very very informative. Its write ups like these that deserve to be read by thousands of mylotters but end up with only a few. Its not the question of possessing a diamond and how big it is, its the message conveyed that is really good. I do hope more people read it, for the good discussions usually end in nothing. Keep it up.