R people in corporates really friends or just professionals...?
By hollowheart
@hollowheart (1572)
India
May 26, 2007 3:11am CST
Hi folks, just like me i am sure most of u are working in corporates. U must have also faced the blues there just like me, u must have been left awake and hungry just like me. But my question is are people in corporates really a friend or are they just professionals and worth keeping relationship only for the sake of work and business?
i feel they r not worth being called friends ever...they r too professional and i hate it. A person shopuld be more humane than just a professional.
2 responses
@squaretile (3778)
• Singapore
28 May 07
I think in the corporate world, it's hard to make true friends. the people you meet are those who get to know you because of work, because they need to get something done, or because they need to clinch a deal.
personally, I've made only one or two good friends outside my organisation. especially when you are not part of the same company, you tend to be working at different goals. in the same company however, I've made many good friends. That's because we're on the same team, faced with the same boss, dealing with the same issues and fighting the same 'external' rivals.
Hence, it's likely that one is closer to your colleagues. My colleagues now are great people. and we see each other everyday, so that makes for consistent updating on each others' lives.
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
28 May 07
WOW! i think u are very lucky. I have always thought people as friends and found that they never liked me except wheni was a need to get their problems solved. So its sad that people only make friends or relation for he sake of taking advantage and geting work done. Never to know a person, understand and feel the person and his / her life and help him / her. But thanks for the nice response. May God bless u with a happy life at work too. :)
@Phlamingho (7822)
• Denmark
26 May 07
I'd say just professionals. I have a great time with several of the people I work with, all very nice people, but in order to improve my career I'd be mercyless. They are not that good friends of mine.
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@hollowheart (1572)
• India
28 May 07
Phlamingo, i agree what u say, but yet i dont see any harm in being friends and trying to grow, while the other is being supported, looked at, helped as and when required, be it personal or professional help.




