Forgive and forget. who first?

Whoa! it's so hard to say sorry if it's not my fault. But for the sake of having peace of mind, i will do the first move to iron out things. When all is smooth and back to normal I will tell him that it's his fault in a way that he won't get offended, because when you do this during an argument, your partner won't listen. There's always a time for everything and you cannot force anyone to make him admit on his fault, let it pass awhile and do your next move.

hi! hello! it's part of a relations that you have misunderstanding i think you never stop knowing and understand each other and it's also a spice of love and relationship. no one is perfect same with relationship. we just smile after the end of the day hug or kiss cause were just human and forget what happencause it's not healthy if you still go on with the problem just the solution. have a nice day!

Most of the time,I was not the first to say sorry,because I would think I was not wrong on the problems at the very time,even I exactlly did something not so properly.But I don't dare to admit my fault when I find out it.

That depends on whether or not it is actaully me that's right;-)

Its ok for me to say sorry first if i know that my fault. But if i know that's his/her fault, i should have pride and wait for her move.

Equal. Sometimes i am the one who hug him asking for forgiveness first, sometimes, i am too angry and wait for his move.

hmm...for me if it's really my fault i don't wait any longer, i say sorry and i mean it! but sometimes it depends on the person saying sorry or was the sorry is really from the heart or it's just a word SORRY!

Well it just so happen that someone i know always says sorry literally but that's it just a word. Maybe it's easy for her to say but really don't mean it! gudluck to her hahaha!