Should You Take Your Ex Back If They've Cheated On You?
By sumimasen
@sumimasen (644)
United States
May 29, 2007 2:24am CST
I'm thinking about dating this one girl again...but I'm having a hard time forgiving her for cheating on me. I don't know if I can take her back.
She's really beautiful, but I think I'm going to have to pass.
5 responses
@JanMags (724)
• Philippines
29 May 07
I agree with you completely but I think taking back an ex depends on the circumstances. I've experienced being cheated on too. I hated my experiences. I usually never forgive cheaters. It's not about whether they'll cheat again or not. It's just the plain fact of cheating that i hate. For others however, it may be better to consider forgiving and forgetting especially if they hava had a long history as a couple or if they have kids already. In these cases maybe it would be okay to forgive once.
@sumimasen (644)
• United States
29 May 07
Yeah, I agree.
The sad part of it I think is that it makes me trust people a little less than before. :(
Instead of talking to her, I think I'll just go watch fight club and get a burrito.
@JanMags (724)
• Philippines
30 May 07
hahaha. That's a great idea. I mean about watching fight club and a burrito. As for not trusting, I am sorry to say that it's really a risk and a lot of people just can't be trusted at all. I also trust people less now. But don't let it get you down too long. Just go on with life and see what happens.
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
30 May 07
Hi sumimasen! NOPE! once a cheater is always be a cheater!
Specially when you are only on the stage of being a boyfriend or girlfriend..beside God given us enough knowledge to recognize what's wrong and what is right..
@sumimasen (644)
• United States
30 May 07
Thanks for your comment! It helps to remember to be strong and not helpless...which is why I watched Fight Club, ha!
@flpoolbum (2978)
• United States
30 May 07
My first wife cheated on me and then became pregnant. She left to live with her boyfriend. I didn't divorce her until she had her baby, so that she could stay on my health insurance. Her new boyfriend had no way of supporting her and I didn't want the child to be neglected proper pre-natal health care because of poor choices her mother made. As soon as the baby was born, I filed for divorce. At one point, she told me that she wanted to come back but I told her no!
@rb200406 (1824)
• India
29 May 07
Yes you are right.It is not easy to just forgive cheater.If you really want to go back to her ,have strong reasons for that.Just physical beauty is not good enough reson to go back to her.Analyse the situation well & then take the decision.Once she cheated she can do it again.
@flpoolbum (2978)
• United States
30 May 07
I can relate to that, but thinking with your other head causes all kinds of trouble.
