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Anger Is Like A Fat, Ugly Frog That No One Wants To Kiss. What Do You Think?  email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 99/100. sunshinelady (6109)   ranked 190 out of 32,962 in life 5 years ago

I like this comparison that I got in the email today and it is oh so true. Read this and tell me what you think?

"Anger is like a fat, ugly frog that no one wants to kiss. But even
a child knows that when we kiss a frog, a gift appears."

-- Robert Holden
Author of Shift Happens

********************************************************************

We all know there is nothing pretty about anger, but the truth is
it gets even uglier when we try to suppress it. The further down we
try to push it, the more insidious it becomes, outwardly causing
irrational thinking, depression, rage and violence, while inwardly
creating ulcers and heart attacks, migraines and addictions. And
every time we try to hide our anger, we miss an opportunity to heal
and change.

Instead of trying to bury our anger, we're better off when we
acknowledge its presence; accept that it has arisen to expose our
doubts and fears, our old wounds and our own lack of self. Once
we've "kissed the frog" by accepting its presence, we can let it
go, blessing our old wounds, releasing our fears, and restoring
inner peace as we choose not to react but to create a better way
for ourselves and our world.


May you always be willing to let anger go and accept the gift it
brings.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 99/100. Prairiedawn31 (1167)   5 years ago

That is a different way of seeing things. When I get mad I can't talk I just automatically clam up and do not want anyone to talk to me either. I don't know why but I do. My hubby always gets mad when I don't talk when I am mad but it is like my head is throwing thoughts around right and left and I can't get any of them straight to even begin to talk about things. I listen to what some one is saying and then my mind is coming up with 100 different ways to go with that comment it seems haha. It is just better I don't say anything because if I am mad enough they won't like what I say anyway. I really have trouble just kissing that frog and saying thanks when I am mad :-)

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2. myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15574)   ranked 1,381 out of 32,962 in life   5 years ago

I try never to supress my anger. I prefer to either cuss like a sailor or kick something (not my dogs).

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. winterose (18794)   5 years ago

all those things are true, in a word anger makes us sick , also when we walk around so angry all the time, people don't want to be near us so they are not going to kiss a fat angry toad.

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. suscan (1699)   ranked 4,096 out of 32,962 in life   5 years ago

Great quote. It is always bets to let anger go although it is hard sometimes. It really is like a fat ugly frog, and I think when we embrace instead of holding it in, it is best for our well being

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5. myLot reputation of 93/100. gberlin (3165)   ranked 702 out of 32,962 in life   5 years ago

I think that if a beautiful princess gave me a kiss then I would be over my anger! LOL! Sorry I could not resist!


myLot reputation of 99/100. sunshinelady (6109)   ranked 190 out of 32,962 in life  5 years ago

I cracked up laughing when I read your response. I think I would have to say the same except it would have to be a prince instead of a princess. lol


myLot reputation of 99/100. suscan (1699)   ranked 4,096 out of 32,962 in life  5 years ago

A great kiss from a hot prince would get rid of a lot of anger. LoL.


myLot reputation of 93/100. gberlin (3165)   ranked 702 out of 32,962 in life  5 years ago

I am so happy that I could make 2 people laugh! I enjoy making people laugh. Laughing is good and nothing makes me happier than when I can make people laugh! Have a great day ladies!

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