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cpclos (22)   ranked 11,008 out of 38,396 in life3 years ago

I've been in a relationship for 8 months now. Everything been great but it seems to be leading up to a final climax. Lately all we been ending up doing is fighting and arguing and to be truthful is getting annoying. It didn't use to be like this at all and it seems like we are both starting to change. Every little thing sparks an argument and the annoying part of it is that most of them are for no reason. I feel like we are starting to get under each others skins. I really do like this girl and i enjoy being with her and these last 8 months been amazing but what should i do?

 
 
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1. treasurerof2 (17)   ranked 16,292 out of 38,396 in life   3 years ago

I think that whether you stay or go is entirely up to you, no one can really say what you should do, but do keep in mind that usually the front end of a relationship is the infatuation part, and that does (unfortunately) start to wane once the new has worn off. What is left is the real part...if it's real love then you realize that no one is perfect, we all have our differences and love each other unconditionally. If you aren't right for each other, only you can know that....Blessings!!

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2. myLot reputation of 74/100. RealDeal (1276)   ranked 3,031 out of 38,396 in life   3 years ago

Since you've reconized that there is a problem then you need to be the one to say "Hey, we need to talk" and do it. Don't get into a yelling match with each other for it'll never solve a thing but it will make things much worse. If you care for her and want to make things work between you two, you have to be open minded and listen to her side as well as her listening to your side. A relationship is 50/50, each one of you has to give and take. You give a little and you take a little just as she needs to. Communication is so important. So important. However, we can't tell you what to do. You have to figure it out for yourself but in order to do so you have to talk with her first and see where she stands and then decide from there. I wish you the best of luck in which ever you decide to do!


cpclos (22)   ranked 11,008 out of 38,396 in life  3 years ago

I guess you are right, a relationship is a 50/50 partnership and should be treated like a 50/50 partnership all the way. I appreciate what you said and will take your advise, thanks.

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3. myLot reputation of 90/100. burcun (238)   ranked 3,143 out of 38,396 in life   3 years ago

You are saying that last 8 months been amazing and you like this girl. So if you like her you must try harder, you must speak with her try the solition your problems. If you dont talk about it you cant be happy. I hope you will find a way out.

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4. myLot reputation of 84/100. smacksman (3824)   ranked 6,495 out of 38,396 in life   3 years ago

Sorry, but this is part of the agony of being 16. Been there, done that, swallowed the pill. All hell usually breaks out at that age! haha.

Seriously though, have a good chat together and maybe see if you have a break for a while and see if 'absense makes the heart grow fonder' as the saying goes.

If you both feel the same way after a break then great.

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