one who loves you? or the one you love?

Hmmm...? It's quite tough to decide. But I think I will choose the one who loves me. Because eventually with his love I will fall in love with him and return his love as well. It's difficult to stay in a relationship, especially for girls when you are the one who loves him. Because, when the guy takes you for granted. You will at the end look like a beggar, begging for his love and attention. I know sometimes, he will love you as well, but it takes a lot of times and patience as well. So I will vote for the one who truly, deeply loves me. And I will love him in return. (^^,)

I'd rather be the one i love most rather than the one who loves me. It's impractical being the one who loves you because you know you pretend. Do what makes you happy.

I would rather choose the one I love.. I believe, I would be happier being with someone I truly love. If I'll chose the one who loves me, it would be a very selfish act for me.. Why?It seems that I am making sure that I am in a safe and win-win situation. I would rather take the risk and stay with someone I love. it would be a great fulfillment for me once he learns to love me back.