Men and women can't just be freinds?
By getjimmy
@getjimmy (2242)
India
October 23, 2006 5:09pm CST
Us will allways in the back of our minds want to know what it's like to hit our female freinds. In fact some of us wait through the many relationships our female friends go through so we can be there just to get close. Women have guys as freinds to get their rent payed, free meals, and counseling. what has love got to do with it? If you look at someone and their beauty allows you to love them is that love?
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5 responses
@heartonfire (4119)
• Denmark
23 Oct 06
hmmm great question....i don;t know how it is in general,but from my own experience i can only say that yes,they can be just friends,but one of the two is in love with the other one..even though they are nothing but friends,depending on the circumstances that don't allow him to have the relationship he wants..but usually,one of them is secretly or not in love with the other one..
@saphire539 (1639)
• United States
23 Oct 06
Yes men and Women can be just friends,I have been just friends with several Men and not been expected by them to be more then just there friend.and now i am just friends with several guys because i am married and wouldn't cheat on my husband.But i have found that it is hard for some Men to just be friends with a Woman i have had lots of guys not talk to me after i refused to be more then just friends with them i feel they are the ones losing out on my friendship.
@Schubler (1525)
• Romania
23 Oct 06
Man... this is a very good discussion... and a very sensible subject... you refer here to only a type of women... who indeed represent the majority... but let`s not forget the one`s that really deserve us being there close to them and comforting them whenever they need it...
Many of my very good friends are women... I never slept with them... not that i didn`t want to ... i`m a man... but i think i value more their friendship to ruin it in one night... some of them had really been there for me when i had a tough time... and believe me man... i had a period with so many disapointments that I can guarantee that others would of hanged themselves if they were in my shoes... but i`m not like that... I think that what doesn`t kill you makes you stronger... and thanks to these women in my life I always managed to get out of situations that no one believed I will ever get out of... so I will always value them as human beings and as great friends... As for the others... let them do what they want... i`m not interested in women that look at my bank acoounts, my cars, my home and my belongings and say to me I have what it take$$$ to be with them... hope you understand my point!!!
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@persona_touch (1701)
• United States
7 Jul 09
my best guy friend and i hit each other but only play around, he some times act like a brother or a fater to me he is major over proteced it kind of annyoing sometimes, but is all good.
