Your friend wants to buy the same top as yours......

i have a friend who is like that before. always envious of what i have. she actually bought same clothes like mine. and mind you, same colors as well. good thing was, we did not wear them on the same day. or else, i'll truly feel bad about it. just like you, i will just say "go ahead and buy it" if she asks if she can have it, too. but i do hope her common sense will work... usually, not... anne

I would be honest, but honestly I don't mind her buying the same top as me at all. Because we'd definitely look very different anyway. I mean sure we're friends but none of my friends has the same style as me. So it would look like completely different outfits anyway, and we have different bodies, don't we? And even if we happen to wear it at the same time I wouldn't mind for the same reason. If it's a really good bargain, then who am I to deprive a friend of that? I wouldn't really be a good friend then, would I? In fact I'm usually the one telling my friends to get the stuff I do, because I have a good eye and luck for finding bargains. Everyone has their own style, but just the same top doesn't decide that...

What would make you uncomfortable about your friend having the same top as you? It is only a top. I wouldn't be against it since me and my friends used to dress alike as kids anyway. We still sometimes buy the same purse, shoes, etc. So, no, I wouldn't have a problem with it at all.

I feel ok as I do have a friend that love to buy same clothing. She even ask me to wear the same clothing when we go out.

i definitely wouldn't say no.. but i haven't had that problem in a long time because my friends and i have different styles, anyway. But when i find a great bargain, i will tell them where to get it and stuff. Also, if someone loves something i'm wearing, i don't mind telling as well.. so if they end up buying it, it's ok.

Me I will be flattered because to me it means I have great taste. I don't mind her copying my taste so long as we don't wear it at the same time.

They say that imitation is a form of flattery. It wouldn't worry me one bit if a friend wanted to get the same top as me.

I don't think I'd mind. After all, it's better than her asking to borrow mine! LOL I was actually the one that got the same shirt as one of my friends, though I was maybe 8 years old at the time. This was back when Cyndi Lauper was popular and the shirt read "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun". I was a girl that just wanted to have fun. I thought it suited me so I got a shirt just like my friend's. My friend and I even worn our shirts on the same day. It didn't matter to her. She was totally cool about it!

Even if my friend do not buy the same top, someone else would unless the top is exclusive. So, I would not say no. In fact, I should feel honoured that someone else also like my taste. lol. If I am particular, I would not buy the top if she is buying. Even if your friend or someone else wear the same top, I dare say that the person would not be wearing the same exact bottom and accessories. It would be coincidence if this is so. To make it less likely that my friend will buy the same top, I shop alone.

oh yeah. why not? after all I don't own it, and I am not the one who designs it. way back college, my friends and I bought same tops and wear it the same day on school. everyone thought that we'll going to have a dance number at school.

That's no problem at all. Because I may look better to wear it rather than my friend:)

i wud say go ahaed. its not lik tht top is the end of the wrld. and surely tht one top is not at al mre imp thn our friendship. i ll go and buy som other tops. wit todays growing retail it will be not diff for me to find another beautiful top.