My Pal's Wife Cheats Constantly

Nigeria
June 14, 2007 12:05am CST
My childhood friend has a big dilemma (true story!!!). He is married to a very beautiful woman, who is an absolutely great mum (2 lovely well brought up kids), performs culinary wonders in the kitchen and from all accounts is a bombshell in bed. The last one is the source of the current trouble. She is such a bombshell in bed, that others have 'tasted' the fruit (not including me oh!!!) and my poor friend caught her a couple of times while they were in nigeria. He so loves this woman, that even with all this he forgave her and relocated to Holland with her about 2 years ago. His hope was that this would be a chance to start afresh. However, he learned on a routine visit to their family doctor that she had an abortion about 2 months ago. My pal was away at the time, and she had lied that he approved. He has confronted her, and she claims it was for health reasons. However, rumor has it that it was because the pregnancy was for a 'white-man' who she babysits for, especially as the man's wife has confirmed that her husband confessed to the affair. My pal is so devastated, that i fear he may do something careless. i am usually one with sound advise, but i do not know what to tell him What am i supposed to do here, where all the laws will favor the woman? (some people have suggested he 'tricks' her to nigeria and abandons her there).
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@cream97 (29085)
• United States
8 Apr 11
Hi. fellowlife. His wife is very trashy and such a great liar for a woman. I truly feel that he should just divorce her and move on with his life. It is obvious that she will never be true to him again. This is very sad though... I hope that he will be able to move on with his life, because he deserves so much better than what he is putting up with right now.
• Serbia And Montenegro
14 Jun 07
I can`t believe that she could do that to him. He should leave her and take the kids with him. At least he can save his children!