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What do you think is the primary reason for someone to avoid another person? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 86/100. lonely_f16 (1560)   ranked 2,660 out of 35,410 in people3 years ago

Well, I have this classmate before who I find friendly but silent at times. I notice after, because we are not classmates anymore today, this classmate of mine is already evading me. Before, I constantly joke around at him that I like him. Of course, at that time I didn't take it seriously but after, I grew to like him. I notice though that he stares at me when I'm not looking but when we see each other, he evades me.? Why is that so? How about you what's your reason for evading or avoiding a person?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. tonixxx (305)   ranked 3,025 out of 35,410 in people   3 years ago

Generally nerves. It sounds as though there may be some mutual evation flirtation going on. Try cornering him and having a normal conversation, he may explain why he no longer talks to you if you ask him straight out.


myLot reputation of 86/100. lonely_f16 (1560)   ranked 2,660 out of 35,410 in people  3 years ago

maybe because we are not classmates anymore? well, thanks though

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2. myLot reputation of 87/100. donsky14 (2557)   ranked 646 out of 35,410 in people   3 years ago

well, maybe he took the whole "you like him" joke thing seriously, so he started avoiding you? Try talking to him and ask him why his avoiding you..

Personally, I avoid a person when I can't stand the persons attitude..or if I'm not comfortable with him or her.


myLot reputation of 86/100. lonely_f16 (1560)   ranked 2,660 out of 35,410 in people  3 years ago

I don't know with him if he really took it seriously but it was a joke and I said sorry to him before about it for joking him always. Well, If he's not comfortable then I'm not comfortable with him too!


myLot reputation of 87/100. donsky14 (2557)   ranked 646 out of 35,410 in people  3 years ago

uhm, did you try to talk to him again?


myLot reputation of 86/100. lonely_f16 (1560)   ranked 2,660 out of 35,410 in people  3 years ago

I haven't talked to him yet anyway thanks for the question. Well, I decided not to talk so much about it anymore


myLot reputation of 87/100. donsky14 (2557)   ranked 646 out of 35,410 in people  3 years ago

ah...okay. If you don't want to talk about it, then why did you post it here on myLot? Just wondering...

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3. myLot reputation of 85/100. pramodthakur (2181)   ranked 5,242 out of 35,410 in people   3 years ago

Hello Lonely, You are again going to fall in love with someone. This is not fail for you. I am reading your topics continuously here at mylot. I find that you try to leave one bf but other one is in que. You should leave such things for some time and get freshed. Mentally you are disturb this time. So please leave this type of friendship. Do not take care even about those who is taking care about you. He will automatically go his own way. May be he is trying to flirt you. This will again push you in trouble in future. So avoid such boys. Live a happy life with boyfriend. It is easy, you need positive thinking only.


myLot reputation of 86/100. lonely_f16 (1560)   ranked 2,660 out of 35,410 in people  3 years ago

thank you for continuously reading my post. Actually, I don't understand what you mean by leaving one bf or what since I don't have any. I don't intend too to become his gf. He is not really good.

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. alpine_007 (1203)   ranked 205 out of 35,410 in people   3 years ago

i think that the primary reason for this is that he gets bored or frustrated because of joking on him or doing which doesn't likes.


myLot reputation of 86/100. lonely_f16 (1560)   ranked 2,660 out of 35,410 in people  3 years ago

yes maybe you're right but then I said sorry already

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5. myLot reputation of 75/100. chrischan17 (342)   ranked 8,123 out of 35,410 in people   3 years ago

I will only aviod that person when I find that he'she do not like me being in his/her sight. I mean, aviod to have quarrel with him/her. But, if can't help we have to meet, will keep quiet as long as he/she is around and will do my own things. Just let the person talk whatever he/she want or whatever he/she want to do; I mean doing things like staring at you or... Well, hope I have answer you question.


myLot reputation of 86/100. lonely_f16 (1560)   ranked 2,660 out of 35,410 in people  3 years ago

thank you for answering my question..I've learned a lot thanks!

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